Met up a few times, but not sure what she thinks of me and if she has someone else?

[Raidai]

I met this girl through school, she added me and we chatted for a while. Decided to meet up and I teached her how to skate and all, we talked a lot and it was overal just fun and more as friends I guess.

 

Then we met up again to watch eat somewhere, played arcade and went to see a movie which was all good. But nothing really happened, we did touch legs and shoulder sometimes in the cinema cause it was a bit cozy and scary. Was just a small hug at the end, that's it.

 

Then I decided to ask her out kind of, with the new pokemon go app i asked if she wanted to do a pokemon/movie date and she agreed, said it was a good idea. Note there were a week between each meet ups. I decided to take a bit more action so I hugged her at the start, we walked to the beach and sat somewhere silent on two benches eating ice cream and checking our phones for pokemon haha. It was chilly and windy and after a while I decided to sit next to her and leaned against her. I told her it was cold and put my arm around her a bit and pulled her against me which she let me do. We sat there for a while and then we went out again, catching pokemons. When it was done we were waiting on the bus for the cinema and I decided to wrap my arms around her at the busstop from behind. I can vaguely remember she didnt really... React to it but i let go after a bit. Thinking back of it I think it was a mistake to do it in the first place.. Might come off too strong, dunno.

 

We then walked from getting out of the bus to the cinema and I decided to hold her hand which she let me do. We moved thumbs on each other a bit and all the way to the cinema we kept holding hands. I let go at the cinema and we went to the movie. Which we just watched nicely, and I decided to make another move. I put my hand on her upper leg and grab her hand which was on it and i stroked it a bit, she did too and we both squeezed a bit sometimes but she kept looking at the screen.

 

I then later put my hand on her upper leg and stroked it a bit, went a bit more down and on the inside of it, gently and squeezing it a bit, putting my nails into it etc. I don't really know how she reacted but after a while I could feel her upper leg got very warm and when I let go, after a bit, she folded her legs over each other. Nothing much really happened after that other than holding hand again in the cinema and when walking back to the train station where we hugged and said goodbye and said we had a good time.

 

Now she.. Doesn't really talk much on chat/text, short answers kinda and since today she's gone to a camp for a week (our date was wednesday). Now I am a very overthinking person and I think maybe I came off too strong but she never rejected me, i kinda regret not going for a kiss but didnt really get an opportunity either.

 

She told me before we had our first meet up she said something really stupid to a friend and that she ruined something and hated it, ate bad because of it. She specificly said 'friend' so i doubt she had something going on. But.. Her whatsapp status is now "I used to recognize myself, it's funny how reflections change." I googled it and it's from a song James*Bay ? Let It Go Lyrics | Genius Lyrics

 

Now I am again, very overthinking so I dont know what to do with it. I tend to always find girls in the wrong timing with an ex or whatever **** going on, been let down 3x the last 3 girls or so, So i am very cautious. I try and keep my distance now and let her come to me and let her start a convo I guess..

 

I could when she comes back maybe ask to meet up again cause she still has my charger cable, maybe for a movie at someone's home but I don't know yet. She never rejected my actions, she did hold hands with me, hold my hand in the cinema and squeezed it / stroked it a little so.. I mean that's not something you do with a friendzoned type of guy right? Haha.

 

I dont really wanna ask what her whatsapp status is about, asking if she's been with a guy recently or had a relationship, maybe she just likes the song who knows.. All I want is us to develop slowely into something perhaps cause i think it has potential, we have a lot in common and i start thinking i'm going to like her more. Any ideas?

[preraph]

She liked you okay, but you keep trying to do too much petting in public, and she doesn't like that, nor should she. Trying to climb up her skirt at the movie isn't very respectful of her as a person. You're going to need an apartment and to date her respectfully and not always trying to cop a feel to get anywhere with her. She's not going to Pokemon you on the pier or in the park.

[Raidai]

She liked you okay, but you keep trying to do too much petting in public, and she doesn't like that, nor should she. Trying to climb up her skirt at the movie isn't very respectful of her as a person. You're going to need an apartment and to date her respectfully and not always trying to cop a feel to get anywhere with her. She's not going to Pokemon you on the pier or in the park.

 

No no, I didn't go THAT far down with my hand, lol. And I wasn't aggresive about it in any way. I just felt like doing it as I don't want to wait too long with anything and get friendzoned I guess..

[longjohn]

OP your either very young or a moron or both. I hate to be that blunt but it is what it is. You've a lot to learn about ladies to graduate from moron to simpleton ideally you'll want to get be a gentleman. I suggest you start now before you get yourself beaten, tazed or otherwise stomped on my a lady you've yet to meet. Ladies tend not to enjoy being groped like that in a public place.

 

Another thing you can't "teached" her. You taught her, that really annoyed me and I'm far from a grammar nazi. Good god, stay in school and stay away from females until you've become a gentleman.

[Raidai]

OP your either very young or a moron or both. I hate to be that blunt but it is what it is. You've a lot to learn about ladies to graduate from moron to simpleton ideally you'll want to get be a gentleman. I suggest you start now before you get yourself beaten, tazed or otherwise stomped on my a lady you've yet to meet. Ladies tend not to enjoy being groped like that in a public place.

 

Another thing you can't "teached" her. You taught her, that really annoyed me and I'm far from a grammar nazi. Good god, stay in school and stay away from females until you've become a gentleman.

 

Well aside from the as you call it 'groping' she never showed she didn't like it, still hold hands, still showed she had a good time so I don't see the negativity of it if she didn't pull away or anything?

[Raidai]

Guess I'll keep my distance and let her come to me.