KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 Hi all, I have known a lady for 1 year plus.She is a friendly lady.We always go out in a group. My friend has wooed her for 1 year plus.My friend always goes very near to her when we are around. I dated this lady once this week. May I ask how to find out if she likes me?Thanks in advance.
Dis Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 Aw hun...theres really no way of knowing that for sure All you can do is put yourself out there and ask her out Just say, "I'd like to get to know you more, would you like to meet up for coffee sometime?" If she says yes make sure to get her number and text her to set up the date within the next day or two We miss 100% of the chances we dont take...so go for it! Just be yourself and take a leap of faith! Best of luck to you hun! :bunny: 1
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Author Posted July 16, 2016 I have her contact number and I went out with her once this week.It is the first time we went out without any friends.I am going out with her and my friends in a group again next Sunday. I will ask her out again after the next meetup.
Dis Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 I have her contact number and I went out with her once this week.It is the first time we went out without any friends.I am going out with her and my friends in a group again next Sunday. I will ask her out again after the next meetup. Oh thats great hun! Sounds like you have a good plan What did you guys do last time you went out? Was it a date?
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Author Posted July 16, 2016 I went out with her only.We just ate a lot of food and talked a lot.She asked me a lot about my family.Is this called a date?Another lady has kept texting me lately.So I am thinking of wooing the correct and suitable lady so that I can save some resources.
Dis Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 I went out with her only.We just ate a lot of food and talked a lot.She asked me a lot about my family.Is this called a date?Another lady has kept texting me lately.So I am thinking of wooing the correct and suitable lady so that I can save some resources. I would assume it was a date hun. People have different defintions of what a date is...but what you described sounds like a date to me! Have you given her the impression that you want something more than just a friendship with her? If you havent, it would be a good idea for you to do that so she doesnt assume your just a friend And dating more than one person is totally fine hun...until you two are in an exclusive realtionship your free to do whatever you please I'm glad this girl asked about your family...shes taking an intrest in you...thats a great sign hun!!! She seems interested so dont hesitate asking her out for a second date! Keep us posted hun!
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Author Posted July 16, 2016 It is not easy when we are in a group as my male friend who has wooed her for 1 year plus is very near to her always.How should I hint her?Is it too fast?Should I hint her after a few dates?Perhaps 3?
Dis Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 It is not easy when we are in a group as my male friend who has wooed her for 1 year plus is very near to her always.How should I hint her?Is it too fast?Should I hint her after a few dates?Perhaps 3? If you dont feel comfortable talking to her about these things around this other guy....you can text her or call her and ask her out on a second date then. On the second date you can make it clear that you want more than just a friendship with her. I would make your intentions clear on the second date...I wouldnt wait any longer to do that. I dont blame you for not wanting to talk to her while other men are trying to win her over. So ask her for a second date over the phone or you can pull her aside during the group outing
phineas Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 I invite them over to hang then I put their hand on my pepper. If they are still talking to me then they like me.
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Author Posted July 16, 2016 hand on the pepper?Cannot understand.
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 16, 2016 Author Posted July 16, 2016 Guys fall in love with someone easily,especially after a date with a fine looking lady or a pretty lady whereas ladies are different.
preraph Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 I went out with her only.We just ate a lot of food and talked a lot.She asked me a lot about my family.Is this called a date?Another lady has kept texting me lately.So I am thinking of wooing the correct and suitable lady so that I can save some resources. It's only a date if you're not disguising the fact it's a date in order to get her to agree to go with you. If you made up some excuse to meet with her, it's not a date. If you said, "Hey, would you like to go out Friday," it's a date.
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 17, 2016 Author Posted July 17, 2016 Hi all, I have known a lady for 1 year plus. I dated her once this week and I asked her out again. She agreed yesterday and then she suggested to ask our friends out today. Does this mean a rejection and I should give up?
smudge21 Posted July 17, 2016 Posted July 17, 2016 Don't see it as rejection, but I also don't see it as a positive sign - was it definitely set up as a "second date"?. I'd go and just be aware of your gut instincts. Maybe she just wants to take things slow (yes, even though you've known her a year, you still only dated once). If you want something to move quicker than you may need to find someone else to date.
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 17, 2016 Author Posted July 17, 2016 You are right.Maybe I need to look for another because I really don't want to behave like my friend who woos her for 1 year plus.
NVO Posted July 18, 2016 Posted July 18, 2016 It is not easy when we are in a group as my male friend who has wooed her for 1 year plus is very near to her always.How should I hint her?Is it too fast?Should I hint her after a few dates?Perhaps 3? Don't date the ex of your friend. Bro-code 101.
Author KenrickGaw Posted July 19, 2016 Author Posted July 19, 2016 She is not the ex of my friend although my friend has wooed her for 1 year plus.
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