Smallasian13 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 (edited) So my boyfriend broke up with me a month and a week into his deployment. He said I didn't wanna spend enough time with him the night before he left and that it shouldn't take someone having to tell me I should wanna spend time with my boyfriend and that it should happen under my own thought process. He was finishing loading up his house to move to his storage unit and he told me if I Was getting picked up because after he dropped off his last load he was leaving to stay with his friend that night since he had to be out of his house that night and was leaving the next night but I didn't wanna try to self invite myself to his friends house what do y'all think please Help do you think there's a chance we'll get back together? He said we can't fix it too though and that we could still be friends though. he didn't I asked if we could talk or fix things and he said no but apparently at the previous base there weren't girls whereas at the base they're at now there are and he didn't bring it up the night before he left when it happened and I was always at his house with him and i helped pack and clean his house with my mom I thought it sounded auspicious too please help. He waited a month and a week to bring it up though. I brought up the girls to say if it was possible that he met someone else or decided he wanted to be free to fool around someone there and wanted to be with them at the time? Possobly get back with me when he gets back. Is it possible something happened over there too? Do you think there's a chance we may get back together when he gets back? I know you don't know anything about our relationship but like I said could it be something that happened there to make him break up with me and decide to get back together or should I move on. I mean he rarely communicated with me before he broke up I took it as him being very busy though. We were always together except for when he was at work had great times went on multiple dates together. Hung out with his friends and went camping with his roommate and his girlfriend. He said he'd be back for me and that he loved me too. Edited July 15, 2016 by Smallasian13 Forgot something
pooldog Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 Perhaps he was not feeling it and he wants to focus on his really intense job and it was easier for him to let you go. Take some time to take good care of yourself and then start dating. Date to find the many who won't let you go. Not even for a minute. He is out there if you seek him. (((HUGS))) So my boyfriend broke up with me a month and a week into his deployment. He said I didn't wanna spend enough time with him the night before he left and that it shouldn't take someone having to tell me I should wanna spend time with my boyfriend and that it should happen under my own thought process. He was finishing loading up his house to move to his storage unit and he told me if I Was getting picked up because after he dropped off his last load he was leaving to stay with his friend that night since he had to be out of his house that night and was leaving the next night but I didn't wanna try to self invite myself to his friends house what do y'all think please Help do you think there's a chance we'll get back together? He said we can't fix it too though and that we could still be friends though. he didn't I asked if we could talk or fix things and he said no but apparently at the previous base there weren't girls whereas at the base they're at now there are and he didn't bring it up the night before he left when it happened and I was always at his house with him and i helped pack and clean his house with my mom I thought it sounded auspicious too please help. He waited a month and a week to bring it up though. I brought up the girls to say if it was possible that he met someone else or decided he wanted to be free to fool around someone there and wanted to be with them at the time? Possobly get back with me when he gets back. Is it possible something happened over there too? Do you think there's a chance we may get back together when he gets back? I know you don't know anything about our relationship but like I said could it be something that happened there to make him break up with me and decide to get back together or should I move on. I mean he rarely communicated with me before he broke up I took it as him being very busy though. We were always together except for when he was at work had great times went on multiple dates together. Hung out with his friends and went camping with his roommate and his girlfriend. He said he'd be back for me and that he loved me too.
Author Smallasian13 Posted July 17, 2016 Author Posted July 17, 2016 Thank you for your reply and opinion j appreciate it
pooldog Posted July 17, 2016 Posted July 17, 2016 Glad I can help somehow. You should read the book called, "He's just not that into you" and you should have faith that you will meet a man who really wants to be with you and who won't ever make you have another broken heart. Good luck! Come back and update this when you find him! Thank you for your reply and opinion j appreciate it 1
Author Smallasian13 Posted July 23, 2016 Author Posted July 23, 2016 I really appreciate your advice and opinion more than you know. This is some of the best advice I've gotten on this situation. You've been the kindest to me though we don't know each other I appreciate your kindness and words of wisdom. Do you think there's at all a chance we'll get back together or not at all I mean I think he changed when he got there too though.
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