1Jessie86 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 (edited) We're both adults in our early 30s. I texted him after the first date telling him thank you and we texted a bit that same day but since then, nothing. It's been 2 days. Should I text him asking if he's still interested? I'm tired of waiting and guessing whether or not I'll ever hear from him again. Thoughts? By the way, we met online and we were texting pretty often for about a week. Now nothing. Edited July 15, 2016 by 1Jessie86
BlueSteel109 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 Sorry for the generic answer, but I don't see what texting him would hurt. I'm sure he's also wondering if you want a second date or not. He may very well be interpreting that since you haven't texted for two days either maybe you're the one who isn't interested. If you want to text him, text him. What's the worse that could happen?
Zahara Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 Before date - lots of texting. After first date - lack of texting. Personally, doesn't sound like he is interested but before you jump and text confronting him with that -- text him suggesting a date. Go from there. 1
smackie9 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 Nope don't waste your time....he probably has another date lined up with someone else. This is just my experience but when I was dating I was asked out again on the first date or the following day. That shows interest. When you don't hear from them, you are on the back burner.
katiegrl Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 (edited) We're both adults in our early 30s. I texted him after the first date telling him thank you and we texted a bit that same day but since then, nothing. It's been 2 days. Should I text him asking if he's still interested? I'm tired of waiting and guessing whether or not I'll ever hear from him again. Thoughts? By the way, we met online and we were texting pretty often for about a week. Now nothing. Jessie, if you are ever to be successful at this dating game, you need to learn to have PATIENCE. No.. please do not email him again asking him if he's interested.... kiss of death! RELAX, you have had one date (the first meet). You have already emailed him thanking him. IF he is interested, he will reply back and set up another date. If he doesn't, you move on. The reason he was texting a lot before the date was because he was intrigued... it was a fantasy at that point. I am sure you are a lovely woman, but it's possible after he met you, he didn't feel quite the same... no chemistry, whatever. It happens, it is VERY common.... particularly with OLD. Everything can change once you meet in person. Edited July 15, 2016 by katiegrl 3
2005tahoe Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 We're both adults in our early 30s. I texted him after the first date telling him thank you and we texted a bit that same day but since then, nothing. It's been 2 days. Should I text him asking if he's still interested? I'm tired of waiting and guessing whether or not I'll ever hear from him again. Thoughts? By the way, we met online and we were texting pretty often for about a week. Now nothing. I am a guy and I know how you feel. I am big on open communication and just recently had this done to me, so I decided to go NC for a bit.
Sara1989 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 I been on a lot of first dates and yes lack of contact is a bad sign. If your wondering what he is thinking then yes that most likely means his interest level is low. If a man likes you, you know. I done whole waiting around thing, far more than I like to admit. I intimate contact and they get back to you but really if they like you, they contact you straight after the date and ask you out again. It sucks but let that fish go
sunshine2 Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 Don't wait, just keep dating others. There is nothing to wait for. If he liked you, he'd ask you out again. Keep moving!
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