Mark1 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 I am a waiter at a restaurant and met a fun couple one evening. The restaurant was closing so we were the only ones there, so we talked a while. She tipped me 40%. A couple of months later I see her again, she told me she isn't seeing him anymore, it only lasted a few dates. She then proceeded, over the course of about 15 minutes, to take a selfie of us, post it on her Instagram and ask for my number. She was very handsy and gave me hugs at the bar etc. By the time I got home she had added me on Facebook and Snapchat. I texted her saying we should get drinks/dinner sometime and she said "that sounds good but Im not your cougar, haha!" (She is 34 and I'm 27). I asked her if she wanted to get dinner and she said yes, and scheduled a time and place. So we are flirting/texting a bit and she says, "I just want you to know this is just as friends, is that cool?" What the hell? After how forward she was? My guess is she's just trying to cover her bases so if we hook up she doesn't feel like a ****.
Jabron1 Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 (edited) Take her out, and see what the deal is. You need to decide whether it's worth an evening of your time. If you started a thread, then it probably is. Edit: dinner is a lame first date. Go out for drinks instead. Edited July 15, 2016 by Jabron1
ChatroomHero Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 Sounds like she enjoys the ego boost, but is not really interested in dating younger.
Ami1uwant Posted July 15, 2016 Posted July 15, 2016 Why are you reposting the same thread from a few days ago ???
longjohn Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 I'd be deleting that number for wasting time. Plenty of younger ladies out there to be dating vs wasting time on one that's in it for an ego boost or having a mid life crisis.
bluefeather Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 Nice work scoring a date. Yeah that's kind of a weird thing for her to say at the end of that, but whatever, it's still a date. Just go have fun and see what happens. "friends" can mean different things...
Alamo657 Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 My guess is she's just trying to cover her bases so if we hook up she doesn't feel like a ****. She told you in a woman's way that there won't be any sex between you 2.
salparadise Posted July 16, 2016 Posted July 16, 2016 So we are flirting/texting a bit and she says, "I just want you to know this is just as friends, is that cool?" What the hell? After how forward she was? My guess is she's just trying to cover her bases so if we hook up she doesn't feel like a ****. Feigning demure is what I call it. Women have to pretend to not be interested in sex. That's the game. Keep the flirting, touching and innuendo in high gear and make the move sooner rather than later. She knows what she's doing. Tell her you're enjoying the friendship as she recovers from her first orgasm. 1
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