icantmoveon Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 okay, here we go. I was wit my boyfriend for 5 years. He initiated a split in April which i went along with. I was absolutely head over heels in love with him but i understood he just wasnt happy anymore. About a month later, i met this lovely guy. He would do anything for me and was always keen on doing stuff my ex wasnt like going out to dinner, cinema etc. I thought this was great until my ex got back in contact with me.. I ended up meeting my ex a few times and he would say how much he missed me but how we would never work as we were both so hurt. We started getting on brilliantly until now, when he has found out i have been seeing someone new and didnt tell him. Now he wont speak to me, has called me every name possible and wont pick up his phone. I asked this new guy to be my guest to a wedding this weekend and now all i want to do is be with my ex. I know after the wedding when my ex finds out ive taken this new guy he will never speak to me again, that will be the end of it but i cant not take the new guy now as he has made the effort to buy a suit get time off work and turned down other plans etc. the wedding is in 3 days and i should be looking forward to it but instead i am dreading it. i really dont want to hurt my ex and im not into this new guy even though he is crazy about me. how do i tell him now im not over my ex?? I honestly have barely eaten, i cant concentrate at work and cant focus on anything. someone help
PegNosePete Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 how do i tell him now im not over my ex?? "I'm sorry but I still have feelings for my ex and I can't continue a relationship with you" Let him know ASAP so the bride and groom can cancel your seat, or invite someone else off their reserve list.
stillafool Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 Please break up with the current guy because you are cheating on him trying to get your ex back. I really can't blame your ex for not wanting to get back with you since you are already cheating on your current bf. Why would your ex want to get involved with someone who does that?
LostOnes05 Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 So some key points... 1. Ex-Boyfriend broke up with you 2. You meet someone that treats you well and does things with you, your ex didn't or wouldn't do 3. Ex says he misses you but that you guys won't work. 4. He gets upset that you're seeing a new guy without telling him...lol, newsflash he broke up with you. 4. Now you want to leave new guy because you have been getting on brilliantly with the ex. But you had 5 years to get along. Will he have to break up with you again to realize he wants to marry you? And where do you all go from here? What's the plan for the relationship long(er) term? Just break up with the new guy and don't waste more of his time sorting out your feelings. Because you're playing both sides of the fence. 1
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