TheQuestioner Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 Here's the story, I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago because of the constant fights we had, and I realized a lot of the fighting was because of the lack of communication we had and the fact I was focusing on another girl (read previous posts if you want additional info). During the break up, I have a female friend who I've known for longer who is going through the process of a divorce. She's always sexually joked around about me, even to her husband, but I've always took it lightly. She had even groped me before but again, I thought she was joking. Well during my break up, I visited her and we both vented to each other, she told me about her saving up for a divorce, and I was telling her about all the fights I had with my girlfriend. During that time she had me start fondling her breasts, and she was getting excited and I knew I was too and she told me that during breaks she would just have sex with people. I wanted to at that point sleep with her so bad. I never knew I desired my friend the way that I do. Well, I left because I still had feelings for my ex and eventually got back with her. Things are going well with my girlfriend now, and I'm much more emotionally invested and the relationship really turned around. The problem is, I now sexually fancy my friend, and its been going on for weeks, and she's also tagged me on stuff on Facebook. I think about being in bed with my friend at least 2 to 3 times a week. I know I shouldn't but I can't help it, and I wish she never let me touch her in a sexual way. Anyways, Can anyone on here offer me some advice on how to not be attracted to her, be her friend, and move on from the sexual petting experience?
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