Pandora08 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Start frmo the start. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years (since we were 18/19). We went out for 3 years, and stayed together for a year whilst he was abroad in Singapore. Then last feb, he had a panic. Evetyhign was too serious, and he dumped me. I did NC for 3 months, and then we met up, and ended up getting back together. Everything has been so great recently, and then last night - boom. I got dumped. We have just finished 4 years of university, and both got jobs an hour and a half apart (not far considering our universities were 3 hours apart). He said he had spoken to his parents and that they gave him the advice that we are both startnig 'new chapters in our lives, and that we are in an immature relationship because he is scared of proper commitment that we need to have time apart to grow and be more mature so that he can be a better boyfriend in his next relationship and just have time to himself" I fought and fought for a good two hours, where we talked about how we both needed to be more mature ( i however said we could grow together, where he said he wanted to grow apart because part of becoming more mature was meetng and being with other people). He said he didnt know when he would see me again, that this was a break for us and not to wait for him. I ended the conversation by saying "I hope you manage to grow up and become more mature, and hopefully we'll see what happens in the future :(" Now im completely lost. I am doing NC, but before I had a 3 month wait. Now he said he thinks we shouldnt talk for a longer amount of time. All I want to do is be back with him. He is THE one. We've both said we're perfect for each other, but we met at the wrong time/too early. What can I do to save this? should i contact him in 6 months? I just dont know, but this cant be the end :'(
Author Pandora08 Posted July 21, 2016 Author Posted July 21, 2016 (edited) [] He still has us up in a relationship on Facebook after almost 2 weeks...I didn't realise until today, as I hid it on my timeline. Edited July 21, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator deleted duplicate text ~6
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