S6Benz Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Ok so I started talking to this girl I met online. We went out on one date so far and plan to see each other again. We've been back and forth a few times about moving forward but as of right now we're back to talking. Then one night when texting, she asks me if I am her boyfriend. I was like that is your decision and she insisted I make that decision. So I said yes. Then she got happy and was glad. I want to be with her and am not interested in other girls right now. What do you think of her bringing that up?
Vado Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 After one date? That's very soon! Sounds needy. Don't text to much, ask her for a second date if you're still interested.
Erik30 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I don't know how old you guys are and how long you've been talking, but bringing that up after just one date seems way too soon.
PegNosePete Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I would just ignore it and go with the flow. If you enjoy your second date then make a 3rd. If not, don't. Labels like this don't really mean much, although I guess you basically just promised you wouldn't date others while you're dating her, so stick to that. 1
Larryville Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 That is a Luxury Cruise Liner sized red flag… that is beyond needy, seriously? After one date? And she insist you make the decision?
smackie9 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Go with your gut. If it doesn't feel right and you think she is a bunny boiler then run away as fast as you can. Best thing to do is not show her where you live for the first while, and meet in public for your dates. Like the other poster said, just go with the flow.
Author S6Benz Posted July 12, 2016 Author Posted July 12, 2016 I don't know how old you guys are and how long you've been talking, but bringing that up after just one date seems way too soon. She's 21and we've been talking for about 3 month.
Author S6Benz Posted July 12, 2016 Author Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) That is a Luxury Cruise Liner sized red flag… that is beyond needy, seriously? After one date? And she insist you make the decision? Yes, after one date but we've done alot of talking. She even mentioned future plans with me like living together etc. Some things she said caught me by surprise too. But I like her and want to be with her. Edited July 12, 2016 by S6Benz
Maggie888 Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 I think its sweet and given your young age perfectly fine. Sounds like you are on the same page. Now focus on getting time together in real life versus just texting
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