shinealight Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Ok so I met this person called Lisa at this salsa class 7months ago and everything was going great I was happy. But then recently I noticed a change in her Ie she would stay at home most of the time and there was me wanting to go on nights out with my friends and meet new people. But recently she has started to hate me going out all the time which has annoyed me because I just want to enjoy my life since I am still young. And now my head is a mess because there was me going to get a flat with this person and I just feel like she is not the one for me since she wants to settle down and that is just not me at the moment. And the worse thing is that I met someone on thursday on a night out and now I cannot stop thinking about them because she likes to go out and have fun which my girlfriend does not do since she cannot drink nor does she want to drink. I have no idea what I want to do really, I feel bad because my girlfriend is the lovliest person I have ever met and I feel bad for breaking her heart but then on the other hand I am like don't just rush into this take your time to think. Has anyone been in this situation before?
basil67 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 You talk about her wanting to stay home most of the time and you wanting to go out all of the time. Is there no room for compromise here? If compromise isn't an option, then it sounds like the relationship needs to be ended because you both have different priorities. Sure, she may be lovely, but doesn't she deserve a guy who wants what she does?
Redhead14 Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 Ok so I met this person called Lisa at this salsa class 7months ago and everything was going great I was happy. But then recently I noticed a change in her Ie she would stay at home most of the time and there was me wanting to go on nights out with my friends and meet new people. But recently she has started to hate me going out all the time which has annoyed me because I just want to enjoy my life since I am still young. And now my head is a mess because there was me going to get a flat with this person and I just feel like she is not the one for me since she wants to settle down and that is just not me at the moment. And the worse thing is that I met someone on thursday on a night out and now I cannot stop thinking about them because she likes to go out and have fun which my girlfriend does not do since she cannot drink nor does she want to drink. I have no idea what I want to do really, I feel bad because my girlfriend is the lovliest person I have ever met and I feel bad for breaking her heart but then on the other hand I am like don't just rush into this take your time to think. Has anyone been in this situation before? I am like don't just rush into this -- That would have been a good attitude to have before you moved in with someone you've only known for 7 months . . . you've been living together for a little while at least, so it was less than 7 months that you'd met her. Bad idea for anyone.
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