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Greetings to all the community,

 

I will be brief and get to the point instantly.

 

Girl i was with, out of no reason started a fight (via texting) and the outcome was that the relationship broke. Familiar,right? I don't know if i should label the relationship as an LDR, due to the fact that we are in the same country, just 2 hours driving distance. I think it would be better to label it as a distance relationship. Now, the main reason for this post is the following: She started a fight out of nowhere, like i said via texting on facebook (Also i would like to note here that this relationship was based *mostly* on texting) and so we broke up. We have broken up again in the past, due to similar fights, but we would always talk and fix it. However, at this time, she also blocked me saying i should never speak to her again. Anyway, i have gone total NC for a week almost. What i am asking here is, do you think it is a good idea, going a total NC, and maybe never send anything again? I also have other means of contacting her if i want to.

 

What would you recommend?

Thanks!!:cool:

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Neel that didn't help us out one bit...

 

I mean I realize you are far away from each other and you are having a "texting" relationship which is as better reason to break up with someone as any but what did you do? Is there something one of you did to provoke that fight?

 

If you are feeling alright (at least I'm getting the hints of that) she already told you not to reach her again so I say don't break NC.

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Neel that didn't help us out one bit...

 

I mean I realize you are far away from each other and you are having a "texting" relationship which is as better reason to break up with someone as any but what did you do? Is there something one of you did to provoke that fight?

 

If you are feeling alright (at least I'm getting the hints of that) she already told you not to reach her again so I say don't break NC.

 

Thanks for the feedback! No. As i stated in my post, the fight began out of nowhere and this is something that puzzles me quite a lot.Hence, why i made the post. Since i don't know, should i go by my guts about this girl due to the fact that i know her better than me, all i get is insecurity vibes. Imagine, 2 to 3 days before it was all okay, then the next time i sent her something, i understood at the first reply i got that she wanted to fight.

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I'm going through something similar and I would suggest going NC as much as you can. It's so hard but it's the only way. I hope and wish you the best.

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@shewilltryherbest Yes, i ain't breaking NC. At least for now. Thanks, wish you too the best!

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