isurf Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Hey everyone, I met this amazing girl in a dating site like 5 months ago, and we would talk nearly every day for hour. We met last week. and we hung for 5 hours (technically 4) After we hung she sent a text saying was fun glad we met up and she said she wants to meet me again. We talked normally after that for 3 days however the last 6 days she was a bit off. Like we texted very little like 5 to 10 minutes and we would not talk for 2 days and she seemed a bit standoff ish. I havent txted with her in 2 days and she has done this before like 3 times before so nothing new but was the first time after we met and she is a a busy girl with work and school. Ofcourse we are friends not in a relationship. what do yall think? you think she lost interest? or should i move on or is this normal ? remember she done this before.
Gaeta Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Why did it take so long to meet? The mystery kept her going for 5 months, now that she has seen you in real you're lost the prince charming effect on her. Happens often to people that wait months to meet. See her brain made up all types of beautiful details to compensate for the missing information on you. When faced with the real human you of course you don't measure up to the fantasy you. If you want a shot at this you need to turn this asap into a real life relationship. Set up the 2nd meeting asap. If this is a long distance thing then forget about it. It was good while it lasted and move on. 3
Author isurf Posted July 11, 2016 Author Posted July 11, 2016 Why did it take so long to meet? The mystery kept her going for 5 months, now that she has seen you in real you're lost the prince charming effect on her. Happens often to people that wait months to meet. See her brain made up all types of beautiful details to compensate for the missing information on you. When faced with the real human you of course you don't measure up to the fantasy you. If you want a shot at this you need to turn this asap into a real life relationship. Set up the 2nd meeting asap. If this is a long distance thing then forget about it. It was good while it lasted and move on. Hey Yeah she is a 20 min away She is just busy you know. You think its over or ? She sometimes does this
Vado Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 5 months, that's a lot.... next time, next girl, meet her earleir.
Author isurf Posted July 12, 2016 Author Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) Hey guys Hahahah Her phone was broken. She texted from a friends phone Its still broken but will be fixed this week So releaved What should i do next Edited July 12, 2016 by isurf
Jabron1 Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 (edited) What should i do nextt Relax. Tell her to text you when she gets her new phone. I wouldn't have a conversation between her and her friend's phone. But I get the impression you are clinging to her. You need to stop that. Edit: Just saw this Ofcourse we are friends not in a relationship. So why are you stressing so much over this girl then? Edited July 13, 2016 by Jabron1
Author isurf Posted July 13, 2016 Author Posted July 13, 2016 Yeah we are friends and met in a dating site Hahaha I guess i fell for her thats why i feel like this
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