Hopeful30 Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 Do you have a set of unwritten rules you expect to be followed during dating or relationship etiquette? What's one rule you would never break? (Can be as trivial as farting in bed lol) 1
Satu Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 These are the rules that guarantee success in OLD. 1. Never ever answer a text. 2. If you're disinterested, act interested. 3. If you're interested, act disinterested. 4. Only kiss on the 11th, 2nd, or 19th dates. 5. Always take your ex along on dates. 6. Always be honest about how many people you are exclusively dating. Take care. 12
Gaeta Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 I said this many times. Do not beleive one word out of their mouth untill the day they talk exclusivity. 2
MzLady Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 After about 60 seconds of thought.. this what I have for you.. 1. Don't believe what they say... believe what they do. 2. If something doesn't seem right.. trust your instincts 3. Don't write novels via text.. nothing worse then super long texts 4
todreaminblue Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 always listen to that still small voice that tells you whats right....and what is wrong...... a guy that is mean, disrespectful or haughty to a waitress and or service staff that guy is a dick......he will always be a dick...and that no i cant save him with love....from himself.....deb 3
Lady2163 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Do you have a set of unwritten rules you expect to be followed during dating or relationship etiquette? What's one rule you would never break? (Can be as trivial as farting in bed lol) Oooh....good topic I don't fart until I know they are comfortable with that. Not everyone finds them funny or a source of pride. Always call and show up on time. Texts are for informations purposes only. My time is precious. I hate spending 20 minutes texting back and forth when a two minute phone call will do the same thing. No long, heartfelt texts. Parity. I'm big into parity and equality. I've dabbled in bdsm and it always seems for the first meeting a man wants you to "dress up, dress sexy". It happens occasionally outside of bdsm, but I always ask, "I can wear a skirt and heels, I don't mind making a good first impression. What are you going to wear to look good for me?" No flirting with others while on a date. Whatever the date is, I ask, "how do you want this to be paid for". Actually, that's not a good direct quote. If he suggests renting two jet skis and going out to eat in a couple of days and it is $100 an hour, I'm going to ask, "how shall we pay for this?" A. I'm not paying for everything and B. I'm willing to pay my way.
Satu Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Don't date people with whom you have nothing in common, regardless of how good - looking they might be. 4
Author Hopeful30 Posted July 11, 2016 Author Posted July 11, 2016 Don't date people with whom you have nothing in common, regardless of how good - looking they might be. You won't know that until you actually get to know them a bit. How can you possibly tell just by looking at them? That's silly.
basil67 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 You won't know that until you actually get to know them a bit. How can you possibly tell just by looking at them? That's silly. Why would one go on a date with someone when they haven't yet established at least a little bit of common interest? 1
getsmartie Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 *hold off intimacy until you've established yourselves as being exclusive *if you catch them in an early lie, there are many more lies to come *keep living your life, don't rearrange your social life to suit their schedule *dont ignore red flags 1
Shining One Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Hold off on exclusivity until you've established intimacyHold off on generosity until you've established mutual investment
Weezy1973 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Be fully honest. All the time. No matter how hot they are and how much you want to have sex with them.
OneLov Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Never take relationship advice from strangers on the Internet.:laugh: :lmao: 2
lana-banana Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Never give more than you get. If she texts you once a day, respond in turn; if she's crazy about you, then you can go crazy too, but don't waste time and effort on someone who's lukewarm. 1
getsmartie Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 [*[Hold off on exclusivity until you've established intimacy Hahaha opposite to what I've said! How many girls here have been in tears because they had sex with their date but they haven't heard from after being intimate?
katiegrl Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Why would one go on a date with someone when they haven't yet established at least a little bit of common interest? To find out if there *is* a bit of common interest, and chemistry..... 1
Shining One Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 How many girls here have been in tears because they had sex with their date but they haven't heard from after being intimate?Probably about as many guys who agreed to exclusivity and then got frustrated when the relationship never became sexual.
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