katiegrl Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Shining ..... just leave a note on her door... anonymously. Sign it "your neighbor."
Jabron1 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Dang dude. I certainly wouldn't have told my wife. Enjoy and just don't stare..it's like looking at the sun...quick glances. This is the correct answer. If you have a girlfriend, just have a quick look - and then carry on your business.
losangelena Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 This is the correct answer. If you have a girlfriend, just have a quick look - and then carry on your business. This is precisely the reason someone should tell the neighbor. Protect her from gross pervs. 2
Jabron1 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 This is precisely the reason someone should tell the neighbor. Protect her from gross pervs. You are a funny one; I'll give you that.
Methodical Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 The blinds were closed except for a couple slats on the window sill. I'm not sure how much of a glimpse you can really get while walking and not staring. Telling her sounds like an honorable thing to do, but it might backfire and send up a stalker/creeper alert. I'd leave well enough alone and go about my business. Unless you are hoping for another sneak peek, don't look in her window moving forward.
xxoo Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Dang dude. I certainly wouldn't have told my wife. Enjoy and just don't stare..it's like looking at the sun...quick glances. Why not tell his wife? It's a funny story! I'd want to know. 1
xxoo Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 I still vote for say something. Either you or your gf. What is the harm? She either will fix the binds or she won't, but at least she'll have all the info. Not sure what the issue is. Because it's a potentially embarrassing topic? I wouldn't say anything because I think it insinuates that the woman is doing something wrong by being topless in her own home and not going above and beyond to ensure no one looks in and sees her. Signed: home nudist 6
jen1447 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Signed: home nudist Respect ....I'm naked at home a lot too. 3
NTV Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 You interested in pursuing something with this neighbor? Tell her yourself. You not interested? Send your girlfriend to tell her. You shouldn't have said anything to your gf, because now there's a 95% chance you'll never hear the end of it. Oh sure, your GF will try to pass it off as good-natured ribbing, but there will always be a sliver of insecurity. And if you don't tell the neighbor now, you look untrustworthy to your gf... like a keeper of secrets that shouldn't be kept. If you had said nothing to begin with, then it'd be a moot point and you could get on with life. So now you gotta tell her. But you learned to keep your mouth shut, right?
xxoo Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 You shouldn't have said anything to your gf, because now there's a 95% chance you'll never hear the end of it. Oh sure, your GF will try to pass it off as good-natured ribbing, but there will always be a sliver of insecurity. And if you don't tell the neighbor now, you look untrustworthy to your gf... like a keeper of secrets that shouldn't be kept. If you had said nothing to begin with, then it'd be a moot point and you could get on with life. So now you gotta tell her. But you learned to keep your mouth shut, right? FWIW, none of this is true for me. It is certainly not true that you have to tell the neighbor. I'd find that really odd It's just some breasts; let's be reasonable. 1
LivingWaterPlease Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 (edited) Rip piece from brown paper bag, write "quit staring, creeps," on it, tape it to window over open place. Edited July 11, 2016 by LivingWaterPlease 1
MissBee Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 (edited) I can't see how it would come off as anything but awkward and creepy for you to mention this to your neighbor. It's not a big deal in the grand scheme of things, I would let it slide. I am almost sure people have seen me topless through open windows or partially drawn blinds...I don't care. I mean, I'm not an exhibitionist and I don't do it on purpose, but if it happens on occasion and I don't know, it's not a big deal. I would feel mortified though if my neighbor were to knock on my door, send an email or communicate that he saw me topless by accident and I should close my blinds. Leave it be. Accidentally seeing breasts, you'll recover, so will anyone else who has seen or will see it, and her life isn't worse off for it either. Edited July 11, 2016 by MissBee 3
RecentChange Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Dang - you could see all of that through a couple of slats not closing right? Was it day or night? Hahahah now I am feeling a bit paranoid! I am quite often naked at home, and I am not very fastidious about the blinds - always figured 'eh, no one is looking' - but gees - you saw her through just a few slats?! But I am in the school of "who cares if they did see" - I don't find it a big deal - but if someone came and told me that they could see through my blinds, I would probably be embarrassed. 3
rester Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Many people don't care if people see into their windows even when walking around naked. It's not something they are ashamed about, so if that's the case with your neighbor, telling her about it is going to be awkward. She could very well be aware that people might be able to see in, and she doesn't care. Some things are better left unmentioned. I wouldn't say anything. 4
jen1447 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Many people don't care if people see into their windows even when walking around naked. It's not something they are ashamed about, so if that's the case with your neighbor, telling her about it is going to be awkward. She could very well be aware that people might be able to see in, and she doesn't care. She might even answer the door naked - and not cover up - when you go to tell her. LiteErotica, here we come. 1
SwordofFlame Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Many people don't care if people see into their windows even when walking around naked. It's not something they are ashamed about, so if that's the case with your neighbor, telling her about it is going to be awkward. She could very well be aware that people might be able to see in, and she doesn't care. Some things are better left unmentioned. I wouldn't say anything. I'm exactly this. You're welcome ladies.
Timshel Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 My male married neighbor asked/informed?...why do I let my pups out in my pj's? (never naked) Hmm....letting my pups out requires a few steps off my screened back porch...30 seconds tops. 5-6 am in the morning and I need to worry about dude with two kids looking over a privacy fence....really? I suppose don't say anything and hopefully it is a one off. If anything is to be said, assuredly by gf, not you. The poor woman probably has no idea that she was visible...with the bent shade. When my well meaning neighbor brought up letting my pups out on my own dang property for all of a split second.....I decided to play it risky, pj's and all and let my pups out rather than clean dog poop/pee off the floor. It's a walk on the wild side. 1
minimariah Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 Wouldn't you be suspicious if a neighbor came to you and said your blinds don't seem to be working well losa? LOL. i would be slightly offended. like... are my titties not fun to look at?! 2
xxoo Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 My male married neighbor asked/informed?...why do I let my pups out in my pj's? (never naked) Hmm....letting my pups out requires a few steps off my screened back porch...30 seconds tops. 5-6 am in the morning and I need to worry about dude with two kids looking over a privacy fence....really? I suppose don't say anything and hopefully it is a one off. If anything is to be said, assuredly by gf, not you. The poor woman probably has no idea that she was visible...with the bent shade. When my well meaning neighbor brought up letting my pups out on my own dang property for all of a split second.....I decided to play it risky, pj's and all and let my pups out rather than clean dog poop/pee off the floor. It's a walk on the wild side. I bolded the point in your post where I realized that your "pups" is not a euphemism for your boobs I can't believe he asked about pjs??? People need to mind their own business! 4
jen1447 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 I bolded the point in your post where I realized that your "pups" is not a euphemism for your boobs Funniest post of the day. LOL. i would be slightly offended. like... are my titties not fun to look at?! Ha yeah ....the exhibitionism angle is whole diff thing here am I right? 2
Timshel Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 I bolded the point in your post where I realized that your "pups" is not a euphemism for your boobs I can't believe he asked about pjs??? People need to mind their own business! Indeed, he did. K, property taxes should buy a person a little. 1
gonnadropthemic Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 I wouldn't say anything.... Sometimes I stroll around or change my clothes in the living room and try not to be seen through the windows. If my neighbor or anyone knocked on my door to tell me they saw my tits one day I would be MORTIFIED!! LOL I would never be able to look at that neighbor again. Even if he sent his wife over. I would never be able to look at either of them hahah I would just let it go. Enjoy the free glimpse and move on. Now, if she has the whole dang blinds up and is playing with herself or something, then ya.... maybe then. But then its safe to assume she likes to be watched I would say this is a choose your battle scenario and let this one go. Save this door knocking for the annoying neighbor who has too loud music or is banging their headboard so loud against your walls. HAHA
WhirlwindGuy Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 I dated a girl once and when coming to her apartment one evening, I glanced up at her window...her blinds were closed, but pointed down. I could see her, 100%, by glancing up...she was just in a bra and panties, but very easily seen from the ground floor up. She was mortified when I told her...she had her blinds that way forever apparently, and often stands at her dresser in the mirror there... woops!
jen1447 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 She was mortified when I told her... Yeah right ....it's like the boob thing - we always know what can be seen. 1
Timshel Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 My male married neighbor asked/informed?...why do I let my pups out in my pj's? (never naked) Hmm....letting my pups out requires a few steps off my screened back porch...30 seconds tops. 5-6 am in the morning and I need to worry about dude with two kids looking over a privacy fence....really? I suppose don't say anything and hopefully it is a one off. If anything is to be said, assuredly by gf, not you. The poor woman probably has no idea that she was visible...with the bent shade. When my well meaning neighbor brought up letting my pups out on my own dang property for all of a split second.....I decided to play it risky, pj's and all and let my pups out rather than clean dog poop/pee off the floor. It's a walk on the wild side. Word key....Bold=Boobs xxoo 3
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