StevePeshem Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 Hi guys, basically I met this girl online, we helped each other with boy/girl issues we both had going on. we live across the country from each other (small country) but we just enjoyed chatting, months went by, then a year, we never really had any deep conversations and was part of a group chat with one other girl. Recently she invited me over to go to a party, I think we really connected just seeing each other as a real human being and not some cyber bot. We had a fun time, nothing intimate happened. When I went to leave she was telling me it was really nice to see me, please come back etc. and when I got home the following weeks I received about 5 questions about when I'm next coming down. messages such as "I'd love it if you lived here" since I came back we only talk 1-1. I'm going to stay with her in a couple of weeks, but yesterday she invited me to go and spend a few days visiting her friends 100 away miles from both of us. I feel like maybe she's rushing things, but I don't really want to say no, I do like her, but I want to be living there before I commit to anything, I have to sort out my work over there. How can I play this, I feel like if I go in the coming weeks she and I will connect even more pushing things harder on me to get my life sorted over there (I'm moving there anyway)
JewelD Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 Just tell her that. That you want to get settled before you jump into anything. If she doesn't understand that, then she's not the right person for you.
PrettyEmily77 Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 1. How old are you both? 2. How often have you met in person so far? 2. Are you moving 'there' anyway? From your OP, it's a little difficult to tell which one of you is the most eager, to be honest...
Author StevePeshem Posted July 10, 2016 Author Posted July 10, 2016 I'm 22 she 28 We've only met once but since then it's been her asking me to come visit again so I agreed. Then was invited down. She lives in the city, I'm from the country, the work I'm skilled in is non existent here so I'm moving there for more business
smackie9 Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 It's nothing serious she is looking for....just some fun.
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