DevotedBaker54 Posted July 21, 2016 Posted July 21, 2016 Thank you for your thoughts. He hasn't spoken to me since then, but I'm being really hopeful that my chance to be with him is not a lost cause. (I do believe it is still possible.) Do you have any recommendations for how I could help him understand a healthy relationship (if he does come around)? I would just suggest pointing out moments where you feel like his behavior is unhealthy and hurtful towards you. If him ignoring you hurts your feelings, then just tell him that (without yelling or anything). Maybe if he sees how your feelings are affected by his behavior towards you he will consider his actions before doing something potentially hurtful
Omei Posted July 22, 2016 Posted July 22, 2016 Leave this guy he's a dick he may of had an abusive childhood but he's using his sob stories to play on your sensitivity to have sex with you, he only ever invites you to his house and when yall are done he discards you and of course he gets annoyed you want to chat because your kinda hoping for something else when he has said he doesn't want a relationship he should of also added in just sex to kill your hopes that's kinda why he's a dick he knows your hoping for more but he doesn't want to lose the sex so he doesn't care for your feelings he will always open up just enough in order to get laid then once it's over will shut you out again using words like "be constant" to hook you to the idea that you could possibly be the one for him. You shouldn't have sex with someone hoping they'll change their minds about wanting to be with you. He wanted a really simple text only for sex situation, when he realized you wanted more he should of stopped. A lot of us have been through this when a guy says he doesn't wanna relationship but still wants to have sex with you....you really gotta take it as just that and decide if you can be okay with that or not.
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