Author LilithOnTop Posted September 29, 2016 Author Posted September 29, 2016 As a man, I think some of the posters on here have been a bit harsh without knowing the facts. Why did you guys breakup? He sounds pretty genuine to me and depending on what the reason you broke up was, if nothing too serious I'd say he is reaching out and it's up to you to assess how you feel about him. If you were completely over him, I don't think you'd be posting in here we had a strong connection but we fought a lot and he had some issues. the fights would escalate because he'd threaten to kill himself and i'd have panic attacks as a result. he'd run into traffic during a fight, or break things. his dad had bipolar disorder and was medicated and idk how he died but he had been dead for a year when we got together. so i think he had a lot of unresolved psychological issues concerning his dad. he rarely spoke about him and hated him. he refused to see a therapist when i insisted him to. it was just bad, and i didn't make it any better. i dug up a lot of his pent up issues and was able to push his buttons. i had my own issues too that caused a lot of our arguments. so i am surprised he'd want to return and reach out to me...
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