khan9288 Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 so,my gf and i have been dating for around 2 years on.we,ve been dating ever since we,ve been in college.i have graduated now and shes still in college. But all of a sudden she suddenly went ahead and left for a complete silly reason. So we both had an argument.i got pissed and she started accusing me that i dont respect women.i realised i made a mistake and told her sorry like a 1000 times but she still says no i have no respect for girls. after all the time i,ve been with her i never thought that she would suddenly leave.it hurts so much i feel like killing myself which is strange because im so against it.i have no idea what to do. Never have i felt this much pain before in my life.i seriously need help.i have no idea what to do.i loved her and lost her
ExpatInItaly Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 Can you expand on what this argument was about? I don't understand her comment that you don't respect women, but some context will help us get a bigger picture. How was your relationship up to this point? If you truly feel suicidal, please contact emergency services immediately. Nobody is worth taking your own life for. 1
Author khan9288 Posted July 12, 2016 Author Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) Can you expand on what this argument was about? I don't understand her comment that you don't respect women, but some context will help us get a bigger picture. How was your relationship up to this point? If you truly feel suicidal, please contact emergency services immediately. Nobody is worth taking your own life for. basically i saw her messaging other guys on fb and such it was not normal friendly messages.it was all lovey dovey messages.when i confronted her i might have called her names and thats when she said i dont respect her and all. we had a 2 year relationship.i was expecting to get engaged in 6 months thats how serious i was but unfortunately i guess she wasnt Edited July 13, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language~T
Miss Clavel Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) no, no,no. you are fortunate. you found out. she's made other men her focus and she's managed to somehow make it about you? wow. college pays off in more ways then one. the disagreement was about her lack of respect for YOU. stick to the subject. good luck Edited July 13, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator language ~T 1
ExpatInItaly Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 (edited) basically i saw her messaging other guys on fb and such it was not normal friendly messages.it was all lovey dovey messages.when i confronted her i might have called her names and thats when she said i dont respect her and all. we had a 2 year relationship.i was expecting to get engaged in 6 months thats how serious i was but unfortunately i guess she wasnt While the name-calling is unnecessary, that isn't the sole reason your relationship is over. It's over because she's not committed to you anymore. If she's being lovey-dovey with someone else, that is the real problem. She's already checked out, and you discovered that the hard way. She's trying to shift the blame on you by saying it's because of the name-calling, but really, she's not in love in anymore. Sorry this happened to you, OP. Edited July 13, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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