Serenax Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Me and my ex boyfriend spoke to each other after a year and half, he wanted to get back together and me to forgive him etc. I eventually forgave him but he decided he didn't want to get back together anymore because his family doesn't approve, okay fine. We officially broke things of in September/October last year and in December he got a new girlfriend. I was upset by this, but I just stopped contacting him and blocked him off social media etc. He's still with his girlfriend. He's a selfish idiot, but that's not the point. 6 months later, I do sometimes miss him etc. I just want to know, how can I move on completely? It's so frustrating. Both of these times, we have officially broken up and stopped communication he immediately gets a girlfriend. Which makes me feel worse about myself, replaceable much :/ Maybe, I'm just being emotional for no reason considering it's my time of the month but not that you needed to know that. Any advice?
CarrieT Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 Stick to No Contact. If you hadn't spoken after all that time apart, you wouldn't know what he was up to. Each time you see him again, it re-opens the wound.
Author Serenax Posted July 9, 2016 Author Posted July 9, 2016 Stick to No Contact. If you hadn't spoken after all that time apart, you wouldn't know what he was up to. Each time you see him again, it re-opens the wound. I completely agree with you, doesn't help that he has a new girlfriend and he's already introduced to his family etc but ah well. We were together for nearly 3 years, sometimes it feels like a waste as he's just replaced me.
CarrieT Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 I completely agree with you, doesn't help that he has a new girlfriend and he's already introduced to his family etc but ah well. See, you shouldn't have any of this information. It is irrelevant... We were together for nearly 3 years, sometimes it feels like a waste as he's just replaced me. It isn't a waste. It is life experience. Use it to move on and to not make the same mistakes next time. 2
Redhead14 Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 Me and my ex boyfriend spoke to each other after a year and half, he wanted to get back together and me to forgive him etc. I eventually forgave him but he decided he didn't want to get back together anymore because his family doesn't approve, okay fine. We officially broke things of in September/October last year and in December he got a new girlfriend. I was upset by this, but I just stopped contacting him and blocked him off social media etc. He's still with his girlfriend. He's a selfish idiot, but that's not the point. 6 months later, I do sometimes miss him etc. I just want to know, how can I move on completely? It's so frustrating. Both of these times, we have officially broken up and stopped communication he immediately gets a girlfriend. Which makes me feel worse about myself, replaceable much :/ Maybe, I'm just being emotional for no reason considering it's my time of the month but not that you needed to know that. Any advice? How to move on completely? -- Repeat this 100 times -- "He's a selfish idiot" . . . he didn't immediately get a girlfriend. He was either seeing them before the break up or he found a girl who would quickly have sex with him and he will use them until he's tired of using them . . . because he's a selfish idiot.
Author Serenax Posted July 9, 2016 Author Posted July 9, 2016 See, you shouldn't have any of this information. It is irrelevant... It isn't a waste. It is life experience. Use it to move on and to not make the same mistakes next time. How's it irrelevant?
Author Serenax Posted July 9, 2016 Author Posted July 9, 2016 How to move on completely? -- Repeat this 100 times -- "He's a selfish idiot" . . . he didn't immediately get a girlfriend. He was either seeing them before the break up or he found a girl who would quickly have sex with him and he will use them until he's tired of using them . . . because he's a selfish idiot. I think you're right, he was seeking a new girl/relationship etc so he could keep himself occupied because he's a selfish idiot.
CarrieT Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 How's it irrelevant? How is it relevant!?!?!? It is his life - not yours. You shouldn't care what he is doing or with whom. 1
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