robaday Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Dated someone six months ago. She lived seperate continent but visits where I live twice a year. Went on 5 dates had good time but both said we didnt want relationships due to where we live. When she was away she continued messaging me and at first I replied and was always polite. But after five months her messages still indicated she was attached and were every other day. I'd kinda got on with my life, I knew it had no future so while I replied I never gave any indication it was going anywhere. She's coming back again in a month for four weeks and wants to meet up. I dont want a long distance relationship - didnt back then and dont now. Basically I thought this was over six months ago when she left. Id have no issue meeting up shes cool but Im getting the sense that shes looking for something which neither of us are really in a position to give.....so what do I do?
leogirl876 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Just tell her the truth. I honestly don't see how it could work out living so far apart unless one of you is willing to move. I'm a firm believer that long distance relationships don't work out unless you've already been dating and then had to move, but have plans to get back together in the same location at some point. It never hurts telling her the truth. 1
CarrieT Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Be up front with her that you would rather not meet because you don't see a possible future relationship with her as viable. Why waste the time and money? 1
smackie9 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Yup agree, or say it won't be possible because you have moved on.
Author robaday Posted July 8, 2016 Author Posted July 8, 2016 Thank you appreciate it. Was weird situation. As she seems so attached didn't want to do it over message but its been six months and we werent in a relationship to begin with.....
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