Where is the fine line between communication and mystery?

[Teknoe]

I hear a lot that women are more attracted to men whose intentions are unclear. But I also hear simple communication can be effective. Like telling the girl on the third date that you really like her and would like to see where this dating relationship could head (only if you know she likes you back).

 

So which is which? Playing cool or laying cards on the table and "no games" so to speak?

[MightyPen]

Somewhere straddling the ambiguous, nay foggy, line of mystery and sincerity. You'll know it when you arrive there...actually you won't, because of all the fog.

 

-exits mysteriously, but with a hint of sincerity-

[xxoo]

I hear a lot that women are more attracted to men whose intentions are unclear. But I also hear simple communication can be effective. Like telling the girl on the third date that you really like her and would like to see where this dating relationship could head (only if you know she likes you back).

 

So which is which? Playing cool or laying cards on the table and "no games" so to speak?

 

Not all women are the same. If you are speaking about the woman whose father set you up, she sounds quite traditional and would probably like to be properly courted. That means making intentions clear.

[Teknoe]

Not all women are the same. If you are speaking about the woman whose father set you up, she sounds quite traditional and would probably like to be properly courted. That means making intentions clear.

 

I am and you're probably right. I have a very unique situation on my hands in that most couples don't begin with the father approving of you even before he meets you lol. She is traditional and simple. Not like a lot of typical women her age who seem to be super outgoing and buying the latest fashionable items.