BlueSteel109 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 I feel I'm overthinking things here which I tend to do. I met a girl Wednesday night. We hit it off. I got her number. Texted her all throughout Thursday. She mentioned going to the gym after work then asked if I worked out. Which ultimately lead to us going to the gym together that night. The gym doesn't really scream "date" to me since we got all sweaty but it was an opportunity for one on one time. She got hungry. I took her out to eat. I paid the bill. Dropped her back off at her car. She gave me a hug, but I for some reason didn't go in for a kiss like I usually would. I feel like she's perfect for me and I don't want to rush it with her. She seems very conservative with herself. I think I'm regretting my decision now however. It wasn't worth the chance she thinks I'm not interested.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 You didn't blow it, no. Ask her out on a proper date.
Author BlueSteel109 Posted July 8, 2016 Author Posted July 8, 2016 Thanks for the quick response ExpatInItaly! I texted her around midnight to let her know my boss didn't need me into work today. Its established already if this were to happen we would go to the gym again. She gets off work at 8pm. I'm thinking around the lines of asking for a rain check on the gym so I can take her on a proper date. I haven't actually called her yet since we met. Assuming she replies to my last text in the morning I will call then and just straight up ask her out. No more weird ass questionable date invitations to the gym lol. This seem like the best approach?
joseb Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 I feel I'm overthinking things here which I tend to do. I met a girl Wednesday night. We hit it off. I got her number. Texted her all throughout Thursday. I was wondering if this is what you mean by your opening question. lay off on the constant texting. If will get real old really quickly.
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