Curiousroxy86 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 So I have been talking to this guy and he has made statements about wanting to be exclusive. Though I like him im not ready to be exclusive and need to get to know him more. I told him this. Well he started asking about my job and next thing you know he says " I applied to your job just for fun and have an interview next week". That bothered me but I didn't make a big deal about it. Well he just announced today that he got the job and I'm so annoyed. I mean I don't own my place of my employment and the guy can apply to wherever the heck he wants but i still can't help but feel uneasy....thoughts?
Gaeta Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Had he mentioned he was shopping for a new job? If you work for a big corporation and he was looking for another job and your place of employment gave him the idea of applying there I don't see the problem.
longjohn Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 He sounds nice, maybe you should put some distance between you and he.
d409 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 What was the context? Did he need a job or a new job? Was he asking about your place of employment to see if it's a good spot? Or was he being stalker-ish and just wants to be close to you? Will he be working directly with you? Never wise to work with someone you are dating.
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