tomboi Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Basically I have this friends with benefits kind of girl.. I kept her a secret from my friends.. One of my friends came to know about her and she has been taking to him.. According to him she is a very straight girl (YEAH RIGHT) I started to develop feelings for her , but now she put up a picture on her fb profile... I asked her she never told me she had a bf.. She said she has now.. And that guy has been friends with her for quite a long time but didn't meet her for quite some time.. Should I warn the guy she cheated on her.. He might get angry and come to beat me up although my gang would beat him up... What should I do...
ExpatInItaly Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Basically I have this friends with benefits kind of girl.. I kept her a secret from my friends.. One of my friends came to know about her and she has been taking to him.. According to him she is a very straight girl (YEAH RIGHT) I started to develop feelings for her , but now she put up a picture on her fb profile... I asked her she never told me she had a bf.. She said she has now.. And that guy has been friends with her for quite a long time but didn't meet her for quite some time.. Should I warn the guy she cheated on her.. He might get angry and come to beat me up although my gang would beat him up... What should I do... Sorry OP, but how old are all of you? This sounds incredibly juvenile. Just cut contact with her. She doesn't return your feelings. Time to move on.
Author tomboi Posted July 7, 2016 Author Posted July 7, 2016 Sorry OP, but how old are all of you? This sounds incredibly juvenile. Just cut contact with her. She doesn't return your feelings. Time to move on. She is in college , I am in highschool.. She is 19 , I am 18..
bummer Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Tell your gang to chill. Tell yourself to chill. Summer isn't over, go find a new fwb. 2
JewelD Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Yeah, leave it alone. screwing things up with her bf is not going to make her want you all of a sudden.
spiderowl Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 You had a friends with benefits arrangement so presumably she thought you weren't interested in her for more. Perhaps you weren't at that point. Then she met someone else. When that relationship developed, she posted a pic on Facebook. Maybe she cheated on him, maybe she didn't. Has she stopped sleeping with you now? Who decided it would be fwb - you, her, or both of you? If it was you, then you can't really complain when she moves into a relationship with someone else. Fwb usually means no commitment.
Grewd Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 What do you hope to gain by doing that? I'm not seeing it, do you? If nothing good comes from it I would say it's a bad idea.
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