Poppy47 Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. 30
Adoraxx Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Great job, Poppy!!! I'm so proud of you, I know it was hard to do but you did the right thing!! Hugs!! 2
Author Poppy47 Posted July 7, 2016 Author Posted July 7, 2016 The thought of my family discovering my secret was too much. I might tell them later. Not sure yet. It was important to get rid of all the written evidence. Time later to decide about a confession to my kids. Poppy. 1
lilacwine Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. Wow, I'm so glad to hear this. I'm sure you'd feel very empowered afterwards. I think another added benefit is that there won't be more triggers for you in case you miss him, go through his old cards/letters and feel the urge to reach out. It's a winning decision, Poppy. Congratulations!! 1
Sabella Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 (((((Poppy!))))) I'm so happy for you! What a huge step you have just taken! Amazing, I bet you feel a little lighter now. You've inspired me, thank you 1
pooldog Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Excellent!!! (((Hugs))) This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy.
Oran Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 This morning as I was driving out, I had a vision of the worst scenario. If I were to have an accident, my family would have to come to my house. The secret letters, cards and poems from xMM would be there for them to find. How awful that would be for them. I drove back, collected the lot and trashed them. I had a few feelings of sadness but nothing that won't go away. It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. Poppy. Poppy, I was so pleased for you when I read this. Well done. You did it in your own time, for the right reasons for you. Hoping you feel lighter and freer now. Oran x
ladydesigner Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 (((Poppy47))) That is fantastic! I too hope it feels like a weight has been lifted. Good for you!
ZBA Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Poppy, your strength and resolve are always inspiring. So much respect for how you've healed and moved forward from something so enormous and life-changing. Thanks for setting such an example for those of us who are in completely different places from you... those of us in a more negative headspace. Your state of mind is refreshing and helpful. Hugs.
RedOlive Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 What a huge step. Very inspirational. Thank you for sharing this, Poppy, you are my role model.
13Hearts Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Way to go Poppy. Must be something in the air because I deleted xMM from speed dial on my work phone today. 1
rumblefish12 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 It is the lesser of two evils. Big relief. You, Poppy, are a rock star! An inspiration! Thank you for sharing this.
Author Poppy47 Posted July 8, 2016 Author Posted July 8, 2016 You, Poppy, are a rock star! An inspiration! Thank you for sharing this. I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. It wasn't hard when I considered how much it would hurt my family if they found the stash of mementos. Poppy. 1
rumblefish12 Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. Younger than Mick Jagger and thank you. Hope you have a good weekend!
pooldog Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 That was very smart to think this way! How are you doing now? I'm the oldest rock star ever Rumble, but thank you. It wasn't hard when I considered how much it would hurt my family if they found the stash of mementos. Poppy.
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