Constantly running into people who try to distort my reality...

[venusinlibra]

This happens a lot, but with different people. What can their personality or disorder be called? I want to read more about it. Here's an example of a day in the life of me:

 

1. There are bugs in my apartment and it's getting worse.

2. I tell apartment manager, who denies the problem.

3. I complain again, and manager says no one else complained.

4. I write a certified letter to manager, who ignores me.

5. Legally, since they ignored my letter, I can break my lease without penalty and sue them.

6. I break my lease.

7. They penalize me.

8. I sue them.

9. Their lawyer talks about what a horrible person I am, saying everyone moves because of me. Later, i learn my neighbors were offered $1,000 to move and say it was to get away from me.

10. I secure a unanimous verdict against landlord.

11. Landlord pays me.

12. A new foe of mine contacts landlord about me and landlord tells them stuff about me and what ive been up to, one year after the lawsuit. Landlord clearly has been stalking me. Landlord says i bought bugs at pet store and let them loose and threatened to sue them, and that everyone moved because of me.

 

This really happened. It's as if when I speak up against bullying, I'm bullied even more. I guess it's because I'm dosabled. What is wrong with these people? They keep trying to distort my reality. If I said the sky was blue, they'd wait til a thunderstorm to point at the sky and say that I'm wrong about it being blue. Geez. It's so hard for me to deal with this. I wish i could disappear.

 

Please tell me possible personality disorders the landlord could have. Any support and encouragement would be great too. Thanks.

[preraph]

Sounds like they are taking advantage of you and just plain mean and dishonest. You could contact the renter's association and complain. Or you could move. I believe I'd move.

[xxoo]

Just as your reality is yours, theirs is theirs. You had a beef with them, and they had one with you. You won the legal dispute, and unsurprisingly they are unhappy with it. They hold a grudge and share their perspective. Still, you know that the law decided in your favor.

 

Life is full of these sort of conflicts. Try not to take it personally.

[smackie9]

The guy is just being a D bag. He doesn't have a mental disorder he just lacks any decency as a human being. He doesn't want to spend money on a exterminator simple as that.