joseb Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 Well my buddy who's 27 and i'm 21, he's going to help me out approach women on the street this Tuesday hopefully. Iv'e never done it before. I'm so desperate, i'll do anything. He says that the success rate is higher than it is online, I guess we'll have to wait and see. Well, in real life you at least get a shot at talking to people. Not always the case online. So go for it I say. Though it should not be from a place of desperation. Women sense that and it's unattractive. Go do it with a sense of adventure and a willingness to learn. And that is going to include a lot of rejections. Even very attractive cool guys get rejected a lot when cold approaching. Sorry op, slight derail. Perhaps you too should focus on real life meeting people? 1
longjohn Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 Well my buddy who's 27 and i'm 21, he's going to help me out approach women on the street this Tuesday hopefully. Iv'e never done it before. I'm so desperate, i'll do anything. He says that the success rate is higher than it is online, I guess we'll have to wait and see. Women don't bite, well some do but don't get them that drunk! Just talk to them they are people like the rest of us. See if there's anything in common. Try starting out small, small talk with the young lady at the shop/store/mall. Ladies in the workplace are captive lol, just not your work place they call HR. Make eye contact I rarely don't get a smile in return for eye contact with a lady both younger and older. That smile is your ticket to come over and say hello. Talking is your beachhead, secure it. From there you push inwards and explore the person. I'm saying this and at any point you can hit a landmine and it's all over.. but guess what this is how you learn. Trust me ladies get just as nervous as we do.
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