Author tinkerbell16 Posted July 9, 2016 Author Posted July 9, 2016 It's really like any other kind of relationship tinker. Sometimes the man will want to be serious, sometimes he wont. My girlfriend is older than me and I'm wild about her. The idea of being together long term is a huge turn on for me. If the guy really likes you and you have the same vision for where you're going I don't see a certain number that's going to stop him from dating you or taking you seriously. There is one in particular, 11 years junior, says he wants no kids (I have adult kids). I dont know that I want to re marry but I don't really want to be still dating in 10 years either. I assume I attract younger because I look younger not because I am attracted to younger. I would gladly date my age.
Author tinkerbell16 Posted July 9, 2016 Author Posted July 9, 2016 Personally not looking to get married or have kids, so I am fairly open minded about going out with older women. They seem to disqualify me as 'serious relationship material' a lot of the time anyway. Completely disagree. I'm seeing a 21 and 32 year old now. The difference is night and day. Guess which one of these women has started to push for exclusivity, and I'll give you a prize. The 21 yr old
TheBathWater Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 I'm getting too old to date older women But when I was younger I didn't have an issue with it. I started a thread about this maybe a few months back. I used to be more enthusiastic about dating women 10 years older than me in my twenties, and strangely, avoid dating women younger than mid-twenties. Now in my thirties, I date women as young as early twenties and generally try to avoid anything older than my own age.
phineas Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 I've dated as young as 19 to as old as 42 in the past 4-5 years. Age is just a number and shouldn't be associated to a maturity level. no, because I meet women in their early 40's who act and party like college girls. However, for you young guys, a word of warning. I have learned that women around the age of 40 who were never married and have no children are usually legit bat-chit cray cray. They may say they aren't, but they lie. LOL!
Majormisstep Posted July 9, 2016 Posted July 9, 2016 You all have me convinced to start dating younger men because the gentlemen I've been meeting on OLD are so...well...OLD!
longjohn Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 I recently met a lady that's older as it turns out 10 years older (didn't think it was quite that much, she takes very good care of herself) however there was a spark there on both sides and to be honest I've never dated a lady that much older before. I certainly don't have a problem with it. So far we seem to like each other, have a lot in common and think very much alike. To be fair on paper she's exactly what I go for, independent, intelligent, self sufficient and most importantly because she's older than I there's no issues regarding being on a timeline to see if we like each other enough to marry and start knocking out children. It might just be the right relationship for all I know. Either way I'm game to explore it see where it leads.
Mysteryman9110 Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 I would never want a serious relationship with a woman more than 5 years older than myself. If she is a few years older then its not a huge deal, but still not ideal.I am 31 and I prefer women in their 20's. I would of course have sexy time with women in their 40's if they kept really good care of their bodies, but for a serious relationship I would not even consider such a thing.
Dark Horse Posted July 10, 2016 Posted July 10, 2016 I'm 21 and I can't really see myself with anyone older than 24. But then again, girls my own age intimidate me. It usually takes me a little while to get comfortable around girls so maybe I would.
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