Mjm1014 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 So I'm at the airport today waiting for my flight to arrive and noticed this girl look at me then stand right next to me in the hallway-like really close. Finally after a few minutes I see some seats open up in the waiting area and sit down...soon as I sit down, I see the girl look me in the eyes from afar with a huge smile on her face, and came and sat next to me. There were def other seats she could have sat at too. Anyways I introduced myself and she was flirting up a storm with me, seemed really nervous, and if I stopped talking to her (didn't want to come on too strong since I was technically in uniform working today) she would keep talking to keep the convo going. Finally my flight arrived and I told her it would be fun to get together sometime, which she agreed...she threw her number in my phone then says "but I have to be honest I have a bf, but I'm always could use more friends...I have none"...anyways she's been texting me tonight but I'm not sure what to make of it. She seems very interested but since she has a bf I'm not really sure what her motive was..she obviously wanted me to talk to her at the airport and seemed interested. What would you do? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 It's like the job market. A lot of people have a job but are actively looking for an upgrade. Same thing with relationships. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 snip What would you do? I would do nothing. She has a boyfriend. Take care. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 It's like the job market. A lot of people have a job but are actively looking for an upgrade. Same thing with relationships. Yup. Same thing happened to me. A girl in a bar came up to me out of the blue and wanted "to be friends," but made it clear she had a boyfriend who has away in the military. Anyways, I kept it platonic for a few weeks, but a day or two after she decided that the relationship with the boyfriend wasn't going to work out, and suddenly she was a lot more than just "friendly" to me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Be careful. It likely means she's either looking to upgrade/experiment as others said or she's just good with fooling around. Give her credit for being upfront about it but when ppl go on the prowl in those circumstances it's usually not such a good character pointer. Unless her BF's in the know and good with it, she bscly sold him out to you, in slightly more kind words. The between the lines version is implicitly "I don't respect/value my BF enough not to flirt w/strangers at the airport and arrange hookups with them." I will say that airports are great places to recruit tho. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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