Jack_west2016 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 Hi all. Me and my girlfriend have been together about a year now. She is originally from Canada. During our first few weeks of getting to know each other she went away to Canada to visit family and ended up sleeping with a family friend whilst there (which she didn't tell me about). However 3 months ago I found out about this and chose to forgive her as we weren't actually together at the time and had only known each other a matter of weeks so I wasn't too bothered. However I told her I wouldn't like her to still be in contact with this guy which she said she completely understands. Unfortunately after looking on her phone (I know this is wrong) I've seen that she has been in contact with him for the entire time me and her have been together. It's not constant. Maybe once a month they talk. It's nothing dirty but they seem to love talking to each other. There is a fair bit of flirting going on by both my girlfriend and from this guy she slept with in Canada. I really don't know how to deal with this as I can't mention I saw the messages but I feel like this is going to ruin our relationship. I want 100% of my girlfriends love but I don't feel like that's what I'm getting. What do you guys think? Thanks in advance.
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