So what do you think? Sugar baby or not?

[Kok]

I've recently started dating this girl I like her, but I'm still trying to figure out what type of person she is.

 

I don't like to be judgmental but from what I'm about to say do you think she used to be a sugar baby, with a sugar daddy?

 

Now to see her you would automatically think that she's a high maintenance girl as she is very glamorous( hair nails ect)

 

She was telling me about a guy she used to date and these are the facts:

 

- He was around 20 years older than her

- Not good looking (and she is a 10 out of 10 by the way)

-He was over weight

- He treated her like dirt and spoke down to her

- He flew her around the world

- Brought her loads of gifts

- she said he stopped her from working and in turn he gave her a living allowance each week

- She says they were engaged for 3 years but he never once told her he loved her.

- I've never seen her wearing the engagement ring in any old photos from the time she says she was with him

 

 

I personally don't understand how someone can be engaged without ever telling the person they love them. Just makes no sense to me.

 

She has also mentioned that some of her old friends were the sugar baby type but she was against that type of thing and stopped being friends with them because of their gold digger type attitudes.

 

From all of those facts was she a sugar baby with a sugar daddy? I just need a wider perspective from you guys.

 

 

Thank you to everyone who replies in advance!

[ChatroomHero]

It sounds like it to me. I find it hard to believe he made her stop working, chances are she didn't want to work because he covered her and she didn't have to.

 

 

Does she work now, good job, full time? when you do things does she want to only do expensive things or indicate she likes expensive things? Does she ever act like something you buy or something you wan to do is beneath her?

 

 

If she works at a real career now and isn't high maintenance, I wouldn't worry about her past relationships, I would focus on your relationship with her now.

[jen1447]

I don't like to be judgmental but from what I'm about to say do you think she used to be a sugar baby, with a sugar daddy?

 

Yep. More or less.

[amaysngrace]

Does it matter to you if she use to be a sugar baby?

[VeveCakes]

Yep she was. She's trying to show she's not like that... but she was so, why lie?

 

It would be better if she just owned up to it.

[Kok]

She was working up until last week but she said they fired her for her lateness.

 

She does always expect me to pay for most things and has indicated that she likes expensive things. But does talk about how she likes to save money too on the flip side.

 

I don't really know what to do, I mean I like her, but feel disgusted at the thought of her sleeping with a fat old man.