Km127 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 I feel like I am living in some sort of fantasy world. I can't get over the crush I have on this guy I work with. It has gotten so bad that I compare all others to him. The back story is: we were out drinking one night and I basically confessed my feelings and he instead said some very raunchy, so beyond inappropriate stuff to me. He apologized the next day over and over again and of course I forgave him because of my feelings for him. Now it's 2 months later and he's dating someone. I feel that I compare all other guys to him. I have so many options when it comes to guys and I can't stop blowing them off and not opening up. This guy at work is so beneath me in every aspect and I can't believe that I am so obsessed with him. How do i make myself see him as a friend (although a perv) and let myself move on. I'm beginning to think I'm never going to meet someone because of my feelings for him. I feel that my self esteem has been torn apart over my coworkers drunken (and probably sober) opinion of me.
Redhead14 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 I feel like I am living in some sort of fantasy world. I can't get over the crush I have on this guy I work with. It has gotten so bad that I compare all others to him. The back story is: we were out drinking one night and I basically confessed my feelings and he instead said some very raunchy, so beyond inappropriate stuff to me. He apologized the next day over and over again and of course I forgave him because of my feelings for him. Now it's 2 months later and he's dating someone. I feel that I compare all other guys to him. I have so many options when it comes to guys and I can't stop blowing them off and not opening up. This guy at work is so beneath me in every aspect and I can't believe that I am so obsessed with him. How do i make myself see him as a friend (although a perv) and let myself move on. I'm beginning to think I'm never going to meet someone because of my feelings for him. I feel that my self esteem has been torn apart over my coworkers drunken (and probably sober) opinion of me. How do i make myself see him as a friend (although a perv) -- Repeat this to yourself over and over again -- he is just a friend, he is dating someone else, he is a co-worker and he is a perv . . . I feel that my self esteem has been torn apart over my coworkers drunken (and probably sober) opinion of me. -- If this is the case, then you need to think about why you would be so affected by someone who is just a friend, dating someone else, a co-worker who was drunk and a perv . . . 1
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