grik Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 I have been with my current girlfriend we in a long distance relationship. i love her a lot but makes me so angry sometimes.today she sent me a text about how she couldn't answer my call late last night because she was fast asleep and I didn't reply because I didn't have airtime just had 0.37cents which I was planning on calling her after 12am because it will be 99 percent free. she called me and asked howcum i never replied i expained and we started talking about us and she mentioned she felt worried we maybe losing each other because of how we nolonger talk as much and do the things we used to do,I couldn't hear and told her i would call back and I did only to find her angry saying but I told her I didn't have airtime but I saved to call her. i tried talking to her but as stubborn as always when she gets angry she gets so childish I'm so cross and doesnt want to talk. I'm even thinking of letting go but i dont want because I'm starting to get tired I'm scared of the pain and being hurt waiting for her to reason. I Love This Woman With all my heart but I don't know what to do with her with us it's hard when she acts like this because it's long distance communication is all we have.She Loves me I know that for sure but I don't even feel like trying to beg I'm done with that. What do I do ? What Should I Think ? What May Be The Best Approach.?
Jammer25 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 Have you ever met her in person? Or have you talked about meeting up? If not, I would question if your love is actually that if this is how the two of you fight and resolve issues. It's easy to let things blow up because so much is based on verbal communication only. It's really just up to you if the expectation is that you're okay with LDR and this type of communication. If not, talk to her and let her know your thoughts about the LDR losing steam.
madjac74 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 If you can't look at the title of your thread without laughing , then my assumptions are correct. You both need to grow up and meet people in reality.
Author grik Posted July 5, 2016 Author Posted July 5, 2016 (edited) Have you ever met her in person? Or have you talked about meeting up? If not, I would question if your love is actually that if this is how the two of you fight and resolve issues. It's easy to let things blow up because so much is based on verbal communication only. It's really just up to you if the expectation is that you're okay with LDR and this type of communication. If not, talk to her and let her know your thoughts about the LDR losing steam. thanks for the reply we actually haven't met but planning on doing so this month.we actually talked about that last week. do u think her also being worried about us losing each other but be a point she may be losing interest Edited July 5, 2016 by grik
BaileyB Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 You haven't actually met yet! You have invested so much and become so attached to a woman you haven't actually met... The internet is a crazy, crazy thing... I think you need to meet her and see how things go. But, she does sound really immature and she doesn't communicate well, so I would get my hopes up... 1
joseb Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 As you have not met her, she most definitely is not your "girlfriend". And you don't love her, as you don't even know her. What exactly would you be begging for? To keep being allowed text her? 1
katiegrl Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 As you have not met her, she most definitely is not your "girlfriend". And you don't love her, as you don't even know her. What exactly would you be begging for? To keep being allowed text her? Agree. What you actually *have* is a fantasy... Fantasy is very powerful, but keep it in perspective. Reality is meeting and connecting in real life, hence the word "real-ity*. Not over the internet. Yes the internet is crazy!
Redhead14 Posted July 5, 2016 Posted July 5, 2016 You haven't actually met yet! You have invested so much and become so attached to a woman you haven't actually met... The internet is a crazy, crazy thing... I think you need to meet her and see how things go. But, she does sound really immature and she doesn't communicate well, so I would get my hopes up... Yeah, holy cow, never met her and love her so much???? You don't really know a person until you've spent some quality time together. That being said, if there is this kind of drama happening via text/phone, I can't imagine what would be happening in person. Texting as a means to develop a relationship is a waste of time. If you're struggling financially and can't go to see each other, I'd let this go. Get on your feet and stable as an individual before trying to develop a relationship and then find someone to date who lives near you instead of a having "virtual" relationship without substance. 1
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