MissCongeniality Posted July 6, 2016 Posted July 6, 2016 Wow...not very congenial of you. The rape's not going to break her but it is his leaving that will huh? Way to put a guilt trip on someone by saying their actions are way worse than rape. If my boyfriend left me after I had been raped I would never recover. She needs him now more than ever. The lack of being there for her and leaving her to suffer alone is what will break her.
amaysngrace Posted July 6, 2016 Posted July 6, 2016 If my boyfriend left me after I had been raped I would never recover. She needs him now more than ever. The lack of being there for her and leaving her to suffer alone is what will break her. I respectfully disagree. I think being raped is way worse than being broken up with, especially by a BF I had for just six months. I don't really see how you can even compare the two but that's just me. Besides I said maybe he should be her friend, just not her boyfriend. She's been traumatized and she needs more help than a boyfriend can provide. She's a college kid...her parents should hold her hand through this IMO
MissCongeniality Posted July 6, 2016 Posted July 6, 2016 If you leave, OP, you'll be showing her that men are indeed coward human beings who only think about themselves. This is not about you. It's about her, her well being. If you do care about her, be patient, be there for her, take things very slowly and let her initiate anything. She's obviously traumatized right now, but I believe if you show her you're with her, things will change with time. Even if in a while you guys break up, at least you did something for someone who's been special for you. Exactly this.
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