Chickinman Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 My girlfriend is on vacation and she barely has been texting me or keeping in touch with me. I get that sometimes she is busy but then I see her online on Instagram. A couple days later she removed the DD/MM/YY from her Instagram bio. But she still has the pictures of us on there. And I texted her a couple days ago to check up in her because she injured herself. But she never responded. This is the 3rd day now . Should I text her again? And is this a sign she is going to break up with me?
wesmel06 Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 (edited) First of all man I feel for you. In the past I have wasted countless hours wondering what was going on in the heads of the woman I was either dating or was just interested in dating. To be honest with you though man it was just a big waste of time and energy. Why spend your time waiting for a text message or a call when you could be doing something so much more valuable with your time? You only live once and life is too short to be spending your time miserable wondering what the hell is going on in your relationship. What about your friends, your family, or your life goals? Focus on those things. Here's the deal man. You want to be with a high quality woman. The kind of woman who is excited to see you. Who not only returns your calls and texts but hits you up first as well. This girlfriend of your sounds like she is disrespecting you big time. It sounds like you shouldn't be worried about her breaking up with you. It sounds like you should be considering other options and maybe breaking it off with her. Stop chasing a woman who doesn't deserve your time and energy. Did she even invite you to come on this vacation? I don't know a happy couple who doesn't go on vacation together at least once a year if they can afford it. It's just my opinion but she doesn't sound all that great. Edited July 4, 2016 by wesmel06 2
Hamish57a Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 I'm a firm believer that if a woman wants to be with you then she will. If not then stop bangging your head against the wall. There's lots of great girls out there that will treat you good so don't worry. The signs are hard to read . It's your perception and it may not be hers. Talk to her and be blunt and stop worrying. Take care and keep smiling cause happiness is one smile away
Orion39 Posted July 6, 2016 Posted July 6, 2016 She's on vacation, perhaps she is just enjoying herself without much outside world contact. I wouldn't worry about it or over think it at this time. Plan on something when she returns and don't go in thinking the worst. Hopefully this is not as bad as you think.
Toodaloo Posted July 6, 2016 Posted July 6, 2016 She is on holiday and she has injured herself. She is probably hobbling around feeling like a right berk. It is not the end of the world if you don't speak for a couple of days. Sometimes it can be quite nice to be able to look forward to seeing someone/ talk to someone again after a break away. Quit stressing, go have fun with your mates while you have some extra free time and look forward to when she gets back. Leave her be and relax.
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