seeingthisguy Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 I went on one date with a guy 3 months ago, and it went seemingly well. After this date, we didn't really spend time together, and ended up interacting as friends instead. Things were still flirty, but very friendly. Anyway, I found out just last week from a mutual friend of ours that he just MOVED IN WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND. What the *#@! ? I kind of blew up at him, asking why he never told me he had a girlfriend. He gave me the sorry "I wanted to tell you but I could never find the time..." Excuse. I love the guy, he's a good friend, but why on earth would he have kept this from me? And why am I mad?!
leogirl876 Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 He was probably hoping to get laid behind his girlfriend's back. I strongly believe that men & women can't be friends, unless the guy is gay because usually, the only reason a guy is friends with a girl, it's because he hoping to sleep with her. 1
angel.eyes Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 It was never the right time to tell you he had a girlfriend?!? Why was he even on a date with you in the first place?
Author seeingthisguy Posted July 4, 2016 Author Posted July 4, 2016 It was never the right time to tell you he had a girlfriend?!? Why was he even on a date with you in the first place? RIGHT? I don't know if he had a gf when we went out (he says he didn't) - or if he got her after and then just hid it. Either way: wth?
angel.eyes Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 So in three months, he met her, dated her, entered a relationship, and moved in with her? Riiiight! If you buy that, I have some prime beachfront property in Nebraska to sell you. Prices are a total steal right now. 2
smackie9 Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 This guy is no friend. He is only out for himself, and is having you for an emotional affair with you. Hanging out and being intentionally flirty is just another form of cheating. Yes you should be pissed because he purposely hid it from you. He would never had said anything to you if he never got busted. He's a D bag, ditch this chump. 2
Vado Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 This guy is no friend. He is only out for himself, and is having you for an emotional affair with you. Hanging out and being intentionally flirty is just another form of cheating. Yes you should be pissed because he purposely hid it from you. He would never had said anything to you if he never got busted. He's a D bag, ditch this chump. Probably things went of the rails with his current girlfiend at the time, or they were not exclusive and had 'the talk'. Happends a lot these days, men and women both do it. Sad thing is, people with options become more attractive.
Ocino Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 Maybe he was on a break with this girl and was dating in the meantime, but then they got back together. If you want to remain friends with him hash it out and get to the truth but establish firmer boundaries. If I were you I would be mad too. He deceived you on some level.
Ami1uwant Posted July 4, 2016 Posted July 4, 2016 (edited) [] He avoided the subject because he liked you. Hard to say how is other relationship went.... It's unusual for someone to meet someone then move in 3-4 months after eating. He cause of had some issue in his relationship when he dated you like they were dating 6 months then broke up for 12 months then after dating you they got back together. This actually happened to me. I met someone from an online dating site and we really hit it off girl a first date and actually made out, then within a week she poofed on me. The only rational explanation was she got back with a former BF. It's also possible he had known her as friends for a while ( college friends, co worker, she dated a buddy) then it happened she was available to date do the relationship developed faster because they already knew about each other so 3 months to move in isn't that unusual in that situation. Edited July 4, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Redacted quote of deleted post ~6
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