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If they ask, should I tell them?


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So I've recently started doing OLD. There's one guy who I've been on one date and seemed to hit it off, we've still been talking and are going out again for date #2 this week. I'm also talking to a couple of other guys as well, and will probably go out on some dates with them too. My question is, if any of them ask if I'm seeing other people, should I tell them yes? And if so, will that make them lose interest in me?

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Considering the other option is lying to them, I think you're better to be upfront about what you're doing.

 

And yes, it's possible that a guy who wants to date just one person at a time would lose interest. However, as your and his ethics wouldn't be the same, it's not such a loss anyway.

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I tell. They don't need a lot of info. What I usually say is that I'm looking for one that keeps me from wanting to date others, but yes, I haven't found that person yet, so I'm dating.

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