She asks me to stay at her place .... should i make a move ? [update: back from trip]

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You might be attracted to her and have had a connection one time, but she sounds like a bit of a loser, as someone else said I think you are too good for her. She doesn't even know what she wants. Go for a girl that doesn't give you mixed signals and is into you- just you, no messing with crack head boyfriends etc. you sound like you have a good attitude; look for a girl with a similar attitude to life and values.

 

 

Thank you ... I think Im starting to see a new perspective on her these past two days ... She definitely is confused and I also want a girl who shares the same values ... Truth is she is one of the most beautiful women I have ever met in my life and i am a bit infatuated with her looks but deep down she IS a mess ...

 

I do have a good attitude and at my age, ive been there done that . Shes 24 years old and i have over a decade past hers so ive matured enough not to do stupid stuff she has shown me ...

 

She also told me that one evening we had alone together in the middle of nowhere . she said to me i deserve someone whos more 'normal ' ... she knows shes crazy .

 

Boggles my mind that people are aware theyre crazy yet they do nothing to fix it .

[triple-s]

Not the cocaine maybe but drinking and violence certainly go together.

Excessive alcohol I guess was also to blame for the her propositioning the OP too. Once sober she went OMG!

 

Yeah. The morning she woke up i had to get up ahead of her otherwise she might freak the hell out seeing me beside her in her bed ...

 

The night prior to that moment she had LOTS of alcohol more than cocaine ... im pretty sure it was the alcohol that was responsible for her actions ...

 

MOst guys would take advantage of drunk girls ... I wasnt about to molest her in bed either ; i think that would be raping the girl and im not about to do that sh---

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btw ... one thing she kept telling me was " im too much of a nice guy "

 

I get it . Nice guys finish last .... but i know my boundaries man. Im not about to get violent, do stupid **** just to please a girl ?

 

She wanted me to fight her . She physically pined me to the ground and kept saying " LET IT OUT . GET ANGRY "

 

I was sooo confused . She wanted me to get angry ? perhaps thats what all her lovers do to her ?

 

*sigh*