jmc2ct Posted July 2, 2016 Posted July 2, 2016 My bf is always angry with me, I knew that he had anger issues when we first got together.. but not this bad. He hates my parenting (we both have children from previous partners). He is mad at me when I "give in" as he calls it to my child, I am just trying to be a good parent. He is always yelling at me or her. Him and I have had some trust issues in the past and are trying overcome them. I am trying it is very hard but when he starts yelling at me or my child it makes me resent him. I live in a small town, I have no family here. I stay for him, but I have often thought about packing everything up before he comes home from work and moving.. I know that is terrible. Another thing is he is so consumed with his phone I get jealous of the phone.. I must be crazy. Am I nagging? I don't think this is normal.
Poutrew Posted July 2, 2016 Posted July 2, 2016 Is it normal? No dear, it isn't. In fact I wonder why you really want to stay in a situation that borders, if not actually crosses into, abuse. Have you ever thought those thoughts of packing up and leaving when he is gone is actually your subconscious screaming at you to leave? That part of you knows the truth of how dangerous it is to stay. Eventually it will cross over into physical abuse. You don't want either yourself or your kid to be exposed to that. Leave him and don't look back.
Buddhist Posted July 2, 2016 Posted July 2, 2016 No. People yelling at you and also a child is not in any way, shape or form normal. You should do exactly what your thinking, it's actually the best and safest thing. Your child is being damaged living with someone like this. It may not end there as well, he may begin to hit you too. Get out now, don't stay in that town. Go home where you have family and support. This will end badly.
Author jmc2ct Posted July 3, 2016 Author Posted July 3, 2016 We got into a big argument lastnight over my child eating a bag of chips. He slept in the living room. I went in the living room this morning and was trying to talk to him, he told me he doesn't love me like he used to and I do not respect him. He lefted this house with his child and her clothes. He said he was going to get breakfast for them. I said are u going to "her name" his exs house. He said yeah. I lefted the house and hour later and his ex was driving around my house waving at me. I thought he was in the car, but it wasn't him.. supposably. I went on a rage . I feel psycho! I went to find him.. he was at his parents and said he hadn't lefted. I'm damaged. I have never had a positive relationship and I'm starting to wonder if it is me... I have lost myself in this mess.
Joseph z Posted July 3, 2016 Posted July 3, 2016 Please get out and don't look back, for the sake of your child. I grew up in a house with domestic violence and it has had negative effects on me. Now, as an adult, I understand why my mom didn't leave. It is very hard breaking up with someone that you love, even though they are abusive. You must go and begin to work on getting your life together.
Author jmc2ct Posted July 7, 2016 Author Posted July 7, 2016 I am going to look for a new home tomorrow. I am excited At the same time, I am going to leave my life of almost 4 years behind.. change is hard but I hope I am making the right decision. Only God Can guide me.
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