Teknoe Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Beware of people who text too much in the early stages of dating. I don't believe she doesn't text others the same way. She barely knows you. lol Why would she feel the need to text so much, to someone she barely knows? Because she does it often. I dated two guys like this...non stop texting and calling, right from the beginning, and at first, I felt special. But, before long, the texting slowed down, and it was to manipulate me. To keep me wondering why it slowed down. Both turned out to be controlling, jealous types and the break ups were horrible. In the beginning, when people are making you their whole world, beware...because that's what they do with everyone, because they're lacking something. I'd move on, not because the texting slowed down, but because she texted too much from the beginning, barely knowing you. Excellent call! Yes, be on the lookout for red flags. And someone texting too much and WAY TOO INTO YOU (for what is considered "within healthy reason") is a definite red flag. These days I'm much more into stable, solid relationships than romance novel crap. That doesn't last. But a solid, well grounded, stable woman does. Also, Jewel, my apologies for mistaking your gender. 2
Deidre Posted July 8, 2016 Posted July 8, 2016 Excellent call! Yes, be on the lookout for red flags. And someone texting too much and WAY TOO INTO YOU (for what is considered "within healthy reason") is a definite red flag. These days I'm much more into stable, solid relationships than romance novel crap. That doesn't last. But a solid, well grounded, stable woman does. Also, Jewel, my apologies for mistaking your gender. It's so easy to get carried away with the high feeling of a new relationship, and it feels good and flattering that someone is texting you so much. But, it's a red flag. Just like someone telling you 'I love you' within two weeks of knowing you, is also a red flag. It's designed to get you to trust them quickly, and then the controlling behaviors and such ...begin. There should be a healthy balance of texting and the person having a life outside of a new love interest. If someone is constantly texting and calling you when they barely know you, that will always be a red flag. It's not flattering, it's setting the stage to control you.
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