LovelyChris71 Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 The guy I'm seeing has been telling me he is falling in love with me. I was seeing someone else. As soon as I told my lover I broke up with my boyfriend my lover started hitting up much younger Facebook women and lied saying he has many cousins. Well you don't tell your cousin she is so beautiful and sexy. This guy says I'm insecure. I think insecure is trolling the web for women or men. All I saw on this woman's fake looking Facebook page were foreign men. My lover is a black man so I doubt those horny foreign men were his family. He has many females in his family. There were no women on this girl's page. This young woman had cocoa skin like my lover and almond eyes. She was sprawled out on a couch in a tight summer dress. He has deleted comments for me that were very pleasant. I have no recent comments on Facebook from him. When confronted this guy twisted everything and lied. He claimed to compliment me everyday, just not on Facebook. I have to be treated as an equal. We seemed to be getting closer too. He said this why my family don't compliment me. Well I never tell family they are sexy lol.. My family is far away anyway. I removed him my lover my Facebook. I do not like headgames. He is 52 going on 25 in his mentality. He looks very young for his age too. I care for this man but to me leaving this woman compliments and me none on Facebook is disrepectful and beyond flirting. This man just wants sex. I am not messing with him until he removes the comments and he hasn't. He thought we had a bond he said and I hurt him. He is one sided. When you treat photos online of strangers better than you treat me who you know in real life the bond is broken. How do you feel when your lover, husband, or wife leaves online compliment comments for others and not you but says they compliment you all the time?
Lorenza Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 I don't tolerate compliments or "likes" to other women on social medias (or in reality). It's my boundary. Think whatever you want, look at whoever you want but don't ever let me know or have a clue. I think your guy sounds like a massive player going through some middle age crisis.
mrs rubble Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 I get peeved with my partner drooling over a porn model from Florida, in fact I once went onto his FB and defriended her for him. He's re-friended her again now, but I know it's harmless, he'll never meet her IRL (he's never left NZ).....so he can have his fantasy....Just means I'm free to drool over whoever I like too..let's hope he's as relaxed about it when/if I choose to do the same. I hate FB for this and many other reasons.
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