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Razors, Taco bell, and laughter. My bf moved down and life is good.

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Hey everyone. I haven't posted in a while. Wassup with that depressing picture of myself that I have up?? Can you tell I was going through tough times. I will try to remind myself to put up a more cheery looking picture of myself. lol

 

So as some of you know I was living by myself and had to move back home. Just when I thought the world was coming to an end I find myself happier than I have been in a long time. I have learned quite a lot since I have been back. The biggest lesson I have learned was not to neglect your family. Now that I am back at my aunts house with my little cousins I realized how much they missed me and how much I dissed them to go drink or hang out. Not cool. In the end the only thing you have is your family and I have realized that. And now compared to other families and people I know, my family is not so bad.

 

So anyways....I got a new job, my aunts helping me pay off my credit card and helping me with my car situation and my bf finally moved down.

 

As of right now its great. The taco bell, razor thing was just one night of hanging out with him. We had such a great time these last few days we have laughed so hard we literally had coca cola shoot out of our nose. It feels so good to have him here and to know that he is not going to go away again.

 

It was weird at first because he would be at work and I would leave the house and not know if to call him and let him know? Like do I call him and tell him i am running to the store really quick? lol I dunno?

 

I was really scared that things would be awkward when he moved down but everything is great and well I know ome people said it would be great in the beginning and then I would see the real, things I was not able to see because we had an LDR..but I think we are going to be ok.

 

He has cut the drinking down dramatically and I am happy about that. :) Only on the weekends. :)

 

Im really happy guys. :) But whats cool is that as soon as I moved out of the situation I felt happier. And then being with my family filled this void I had that I just didnt know what it was. I thought it was because my bf was far but it wasn't. I found it was that I needed a little TLC from people that loved and cared for me. I needed my family.

 

So anyways yeah thats my update.

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Ahhh she's so happy with her wittle boyfriend :) Glad to see it actually did work out now that he moved close.

 

And that 'depressing' picture is pretty sexy. Let's go on a date.

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And that 'depressing' picture is pretty sexy. Let's go on a date.

 

Thank you ;):laugh:

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YAY....I'm so happy for you. So you two are not living together, correct?

 

Are you guys dating regularly and stuff?

 

Just say no to credit cards!!!

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Hey Tiki. Miss ya man! No I am living with my aunt for a while. i share a room with her four year old son. Yippe! :rolleyes: I mean I really dig my Ninja Turtle Sheets! :rolleyes:

 

And my bf just got an apartment with his brother across the street from his school.

 

His job and friends and family are in my city though so we have been spending a lot of time together. I start work next week though and then he has to 'really' move into his apartment next week as well, so we will go on to only see each other on the weekends.

 

Which I dont mind. Its better than only seeing him once a month!! And hes just a phone call away if I really need him. Hes really helping me get through what im going through and has been really supportive of the decisions I have made.

 

I feel great. :love:

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Well YAY for you EC! :bunny:

Good things come to those who wait!!! I'm glad everything worked out for ya! Your relationship can only get better. Absence made your heart grow fonder!

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Thanks IHNFC!!! Good luck with your parent meeting! Ahhh.

 

Its been a year and I still freak out when I have to go see his parents. But They have been much nicer to me lately. And they have begun to open up.

 

I think its because they see that their boy moved down for me and that we are going to be seeing a lot more of each other that they are warming up to me a bit more. His mother is a fashion designer and she even sent me some clothes with him the other day. Cute stuff. I was shocked! :)

 

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Originally posted by EC

I think its because they see that their boy moved down for me and that we are going to be seeing a lot more of each other that they are warming up to me a bit more. His mother is a fashion designer and she even sent me some clothes with him the other day. Cute stuff. I was shocked! :)

 

:bunny:

 

Exactly! Me and my BF are 2 hours away from each other. WE have been seeing each other every weekend for 2 months. Hopefully his parents will realize that I must me special or him to come down every other weekend....spend 150 bucks on a hotel room just to see me. (and vice versa, we switch weekends)

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Awwwe Ec I am so happy that you are happy!!!! You know you deserve it. You have to go through some rough times to value the good ones.

 

By the way, I really want details on this Taco Bell, razor thing :p

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By the way, the picture of you is very pretty!!! Watchu talking 'bout?

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