johndoes Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 (edited) Me and my ex girlfriend just broke up. Been together about 7 months. We had are arguments and it wasn't perfect. But I just got tired of not feeling appreciated for anything I did. But the next day she told me that she just wanted someone who was more dominant or someone who said no. Which I did quite a bit. And anytime I would be that way she would get pissed off and either leavemy place or not talk to me. So I'm not sure what to think about it. I'm over us but this is a new one for me...never had someone say that about me before. So I was just curious on what it means "that I should of been more dominant"? Edited June 30, 2016 by johndoes
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 It sounds like an excuse to me. If she had a habit of storming off or giving you the silent treatment, she has a problem with mature communication. Was the relationship a rather dramatic one? 2
Lorenza Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 Maybe she watched "50 shades of Grey" too many times 1
Author johndoes Posted June 30, 2016 Author Posted June 30, 2016 Yeah there was never any communication what so ever. Anytime I did try and talk she just shut down and wouldn't talk. But like I said all we did was argue when I told her no. It shouldn't bother me cause I don't want her back but to some extent it does and i would just like a girls opinion.m in that.
Cherryz Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 Its not big deal. dont feel bad about it. Not everyone you been with is your match. There is just that one person, and both of you wasnt it of each other. Dont even waste time on this. Its just that she not the women for you, you not the men for her. Move on. Im sure you also have things you looking for in someone, and she wasnt it.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 Yeah there was never any communication what so ever. Anytime I did try and talk she just shut down and wouldn't talk. But like I said all we did was argue when I told her no. It shouldn't bother me cause I don't want her back but to some extent it does and i would just like a girls opinion.m in that. I'm a woman and I'll say that she sounds immature and like she's looking for a reason to blame you. You're better off without this one.
Redhead14 Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 Me and my ex girlfriend just broke up. Been together about 7 months. We had are arguments and it wasn't perfect. But I just got tired of not feeling appreciated for anything I did. But the next day she told me that she just wanted someone who was more dominant or someone who said no. Which I did quite a bit. And anytime I would be that way she would get pissed off and either leavemy place or not talk to me. So I'm not sure what to think about it. I'm over us but this is a new one for me...never had someone say that about me before. So I was just curious on what it means "that I should of been more dominant"? She sounds like a petulant, manipulative minx. You dodged a bullet. She set up a catch 22 for you, say no but if you do I'll be pissed -- damned if you do, damned if you don't. That is sabotaging behavior. She was looking for and creating a reason for her to bail and leave you holding the bag. 1
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