winstonthebear23 Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 My ex and i have been broken up for about 6 months. We haven't really talked, except when i said happy birthday and congratulations to her for graduating college. I was always the one to text her first and we hadn't talked for a solid three months. She randomly texted me a few days ago and was asking how i was. i gave her a short answer without really engaging in a conversation, so i wouldn't get my hopes up. but she kept asking me questions about my life and how i was and my family/friends. It was a bit odd. She had never done this before and all of a sudden she was engaging in conversation. The conversation didn't last long. We would reply within an hour of each texts and then it started to be a few hours. She ended the conversation with "Its great talking to you again! i'm so incredibly happy to hear things are going so well!!" I basically said same to you and that i would see her around, which she followed with a few emojis. Its weird because she left me for another guy and she was tired of our mid- distance relationship (we were 3 hours away from eachother), even though we dated for 2 years. Does this conversation mean anything? like did she just do it to be nice or is there more too it? She knows i don't hate her and i've never talked badly about her to anyone. Thoughts?
bummer Posted June 30, 2016 Posted June 30, 2016 Its weird because she left me for another guy and she was tired of our mid- distance relationship (we were 3 hours away from eachother), even though we dated for 2 years. Does this conversation mean anything? like did she just do it to be nice or is there more too it? She knows i don't hate her and i've never talked badly about her to anyone. Thoughts? It could mean the other guy is on the rocks or gone. So she's checking in but not too deeply. she's lonely or bored. More likely, she doesn't believe that you don't hate her and just needed to check in to relieve some guilt. Since you said you were fine, she can go on with her new life with less guilt. Expect another check up in 6 mo to a year. She's happy and living guilt-free thanks to your replies. If it doesn't bother you, keep responding. Otherwise go NC. 1
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