New to this and in need of fast help, please

[leadfoot24]

I'm new to this forum and sort of new to this kind of thing. I was enganged and have been living with the same girl for a while and unfortunatly, she is still living with me until she can get on her feet. But recently I had something happen that has really made me puzzled ever since. The other day at my church block party, during a smal competition, this girl, named Megan, was there. A girl that I met 5 years ago through my father and saw her last year at this same time. We sat and talked and really seemed to hit it off. When the competition was over, she was taking part in it, I was over waiting to talk to her and the first thing she said was if I had an aol name, phone number and email address, so she could get ahold of me. Well in hindsight, I had liked her especially since last year but didn't have the guts to ask for her number, but she took that part away from me. So of course, that was good. Well she went to get something to eat before she had to work at another local festival and I saw her in her car so I went over to her car and we ended up talking, she started asking me about the music I like, where I lived, background information on me and all kinds of different personal questions. Then she asked if I was going to call and I said of course, why, and she responded because people generally don't call, and I said of course I'll call. So we talked some more and settled that we would go catch a movie in two weeks since the next few weeks are busy for both of us. So we said our goodbyes and I watched her pull away. I was standing talking to my one cousin so I walked back over to where the band was setting up and there she was standing there talking to my dad. I walked over and whispered to her that I though she was going. She said she got half way to her destination to remember she forgot her cd's, which was fine with me. She said she might come back late after her shift was over and that she had to get to church so my dad recommended her go to the church right down the street. She said she didn't know where to go and asked me to go. I'm highly religious, and as we were walking into church, it was a substitute priest since our normal pastor was tied up with the festival. And out of no where he grabs the two of us and tells us that an angle just told him to hold mass just for us two, cause we were running late. All went well, and she drove me back up to the festival and said she might be back to call her at 7:30 to remind her. So I went for it I asked if she was seeing someone and she told me she was, in a not so confident way. So I said ok and that I would see her later. So like she asked I called and she told me she would call right back that her shift was just ending and she would call then. She called but I missed it and tried calling twice more but got no answer. So I decided just to hang out with some of my family while the band plalyed and then I got a poke in the side and I turned around to see it was her. Which made me extatic. She told me she was getting a drink and then she saw ice cream but said she wished she brought money so I got her an ice cream and she reluctantly took it. From there, the rest of the night went good, I got up enough guts to ask her to dance one of the last song, at first she said no, but then she did, she said she felt like everyone was watching, because i am the son of one of the members of the band. But we danced and we both had a good time and then it was time for her to go, so I grabbed her a cd of the band like she wanted and we went to her car. She game a me a hug and left. I tried calling the next day but didn't get a call back, but i knew she was busy, she said she would be all this week. So i just sent her an email saying i had such a great time and let the day pass. So today i called her cell phone on my lunch figuring it would be down time for her and her mom answers. But before I could get off she said there she is and she went to get her, but her mom said that she was busy right now and it was just a very quick bye. So now i'm stuck, i sent her an email and said that I thought she would be on lunch since it was that time of the day that was why i called and that her mom didn't have to get her and that she can call me later if she gets a chance. I'm just really confused as to whether or not I should continue to proceed pursueing Megan of not. I do like her, in fact, on Saturday, it was the most fun that I had in years and the first time in a while, and my family said so, that my family had seen me that happy. So now i'm just confused and not sure where to go from here. If anyone could help me I would greatly appreciate it, I've been so happy the past few days.

 

Sorry this was so long, it was a long story

[NiCoLe20]

dont scare her away by calling all the time... girls dont like that!!!

 

let her call you back and see whats up... she said she is dating someone as well so respect that!! you know she's not 100% single so let her call you if she wants to talk.

[leadfoot24]

In other words, she is interested, , since she is the one that asked for my number, as long as I don't scare her a way, but I should not just forget about her or stop purueing it cause she said she was dating someone. Right?

I Hope So