Versacehottie Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 If I had a first date with a guy on a Thursday, I honestly wouldn't expect to hear from him until Sunday or Monday, once the weekend was over. I would expect he would have plans with family and friends, errands, and other weekend stuff, etc. I was usually busy myself for the weekend (and certainly booked up by Thursday anyway.). So to me, the four days wouldn't have mattered. It's not that long, especially when it falls over a weekend. And I think if she is really into you, four days isn't going to put her off anyway. I think it's more likely that she was having fun with you in the moment, agreed to the date, but then felt meh about things after she thought about it more. I'm not sure contacting her sooner would've prevented that. Totally agree. I think the danger for the OP is to specifically wait to contact her for 4 days bc Corey says so won't make her like him either. Good point though.
TheFinalWord Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 (edited) Thanks for the link TFW. I listened to a couple of videos, and I agree with him on certain things, like paying attention to actions vs. words, not chasing, not over-investing too early on, making sure she is both reciprocating and initiating, that you're not doing ALL the work... standing up for yourself, NOT tolerating BS.... etc. Essentially holding yourself to a high self esteem and maintaining your self-respect. Women should be doing this too! What I don't agree with are the strategies (games) he suggests men employ in an attempt to increase a woman's interest level. CW doesn't come out and say it... but it was pretty obvious to me what he is suggesting/advising guys to do is behave in ways such that HIS own insecurity is flipped back on to the woman. Better the woman feel off balance and insecure than the man, right guys? Better the woman chases you than you chase her, right? NO! Not right. It should be an equal balance of give a take, not one person (the woman) chasing the other (the man). I mean, intentionally waiting 3-4 days to call after a first meet, NOT calling to confirm a date.... setting things up so SHE is essentially chasing you.... no THAT I do not agree with it at all! That is game playing and manipulating. But overall I agree with him about standing up for yourself, not tolerating BS.... and don't give more than you receive. On a side note, I found it difficult to actually look at him so I put my tablet down and simply listened. He is just so physically unappealing (to me) and shady looking... I had a very negative visceral reaction looking at him. I can't imagine him being successful with women, but whatevs.... some women might find him attractive, I didn't! Yeah, I don't agree with everything either (try to have sex as soon as possible). He's just one voice among a sea. Chew up the meat, spit out the bones. Corey Wayne is 50% PUA, 50% MGTOW. He mainly provides strategies for nice guys that don't know how to take a hint or cannot recognize when they're in the friend zone. That's funny about his looks. I personally can't all his cussing or that annoying intro music. After two or three videos, that was all I could take. I think listening to a lot of that stuff can make one bitter. Edited July 1, 2016 by TheFinalWord 1
katiegrl Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 (edited) Yeah, I don't agree with everything either (try to have sex as soon as possible). He's just one voice among a sea. Chew up the meat, spit out the bones. Corey Wayne is 50% PUA, 50% MGTOW. He mainly provides strategies for nice guys that don't know how to take a hint or cannot recognize when they're in the friend zone. That's funny about his looks. I personally can't all his cussing or that annoying intro music. After two or three videos, that was all I could take. I think listening to a lot of that stuff can make one bitter. Some of it was downright gross..... and his opinion about why women don't "get wet" was just WAY off the mark. A woman does not have to have high interest to "get wet" (HIS description). In fact there are many women out there (read Whirlwind's latest thread) who want to f**k because they're horny.... they don't give two cr@ps about the guy. On the other hand, a woman can be VERY into a guy, have high interest, and not "get wet", due to nerves or hormones or the like. So that part he had no clue about either.... I suppose he caters to a certain demographic of men who have not been successful with women, continue getting shot down or flaked on, never learned how to stand up for themselves, or recognize BS behavior from women. He is making millions off these guys.... and as I said earlier, laughing all the way to the bank. Edited July 1, 2016 by katiegrl 1
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