Merin Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 Soooo as some of you may remember My BF's EXW had told him a few weeks ago that she would like to meet me... My BF and I have been together for about 7 month's now.. I have met his Wee People, and I have met his Friend's, and I met his Dad on one occassion... Well yesterday I met his EXW... she was going to be coming over to my BF's house to drop off thier Little People... Up to this point my BF hadn't been exactly excited so to speak for me to meet his EXW.. but he told me she was coming over and he would like for me to meet her. When she got there, My BF was in the Kitchen... she came in with thier Kiddo's... she introduced herself to me. She was very nice My BF came out of the Kitchen and said "This is Merin" LOL she looked at him and said "We've already introduced ourselves" THEN to my suprise she asked me if I would like to come to thier Son's Bday party on Friday! LOL I'm crazy about his little boy! I know My BF had felt odd about having me come to a prior function a few months back as he was unsure how his EX may take that... so I was happy that she had invited me. BUT My BF isn't close to the rest of his family so much... he loves them.. this, that, the other.. but they don't spend much time together or talk on the phone often... so anyway the rest of his family will be at this Bday party.. his Parent's, Sib's, Nephews, Nieces... and his EXW Mom... I thanked his Ex for inviting me, told her I would come... My BF and I haven't discussed this at all... he didn't say much about the 2 of us meeting except to ask me what I thought about her... I said she seemed nice, and he said "Yeah she can be cool when she wants too" So now I'm hoping this isn't going to freak my BF out with me being invited to this party where the rest of his family will be... he has told me several times that he needs to introduce me to his family.. and that he will... so we'll see
lindya Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 That's great, Merin Glad to hear she was friendly. Hope the party goes well!
Author Merin Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by lindya That's great, Merin Glad to hear she was friendly. Hope the party goes well! Thank's Girl! She really was very nice.. so that was good. I hope things go well with the party as well, and my BF doesn't flake out with the pressure!
Opium Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 That sounds really nice Merin, the hard parts over now. Do you think she was putting up a front? I don't know woman can be so double-faced, you know what I mean? I hope everything does go good for you in the party, but from what it sounds like your bf isn't to thrilled aobut the b-day party, you need to discuss that with him. All and all it went smoothly, Thank God!
Author Merin Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by Opium That sounds really nice Merin, the hard parts over now. Do you think she was putting up a front? I don't know woman can be so double-faced, you know what I mean? I hope everything does go good for you in the party, but from what it sounds like your bf isn't to thrilled aobut the b-day party, you need to discuss that with him. All and all it went smoothly, Thank God! Yeah I don't know.. I guess I tend to look at people and think about how I am to decide if they are sincere.. LOL When I met my EXH GF I was good to go with it.. it didn't and doesn't bother me to see him with her (or anyone else prior to her for that matter) but it's probably because I divorced him.. so yeah, I was nice to her and will always be nice to her (My EXH GF) I mean I'm not all about hanging out with her, LOL or going for coffee' whatever... but honestly I am happy that my EXH found someone that makes him happy and for real, I think pssshhhh better her than me! So yes, I do think his (My BF's EXW) Was being sincere... besides she didn't have to invite me to the party.. so I guess again I looked at that as her being cool with me and wanting to know more about me because of the time I spend with her Kiddo's... My BF hasn't said anything about the party... so I'm kind of going to let it ride (so to speak) until Thursday... it isn't that he is upset about the party or not "thrilled" I just think for my BF anyway this is a big step you know? Me meeting the rest of his family... I'm hoping for the best too! Thanks Girl
l2hvn Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by Merin anyway this is a big step you know? Me meeting the rest of his family... wow.. glad it went well. it's nice to hear a positive story like that because im actually going to meet my bf's daughter this weekend coming up.. and his family (his mom, his sis, nephew, niece) in two weeks... im scared and excited! like you said, it's a pretty big step. and all i can think about is making a good impression on them, esp. on his daughter! im hoping to get the same reactions like yours.
Author Merin Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by l2hvn wow.. glad it went well. it's nice to hear a positive story like that because im actually going to meet my bf's daughter this weekend coming up.. and his family (his mom, his sis, nephew, niece) in two weeks... im scared and excited! like you said, it's a pretty big step. and all i can think about is making a good impression on them, esp. on his daughter! im hoping to get the same reactions like yours. Yay for you! I'm sure you'll do fine I remember meeting my BF's Wee Peeps for the first time.. LOL It probably made it a lil easier for me because I have kiddo's myself.. but yeah I was hoping they would like me, and me them... So far, so good... I'm crazy about his kids, My little People are crazy about my BF... and all the Kiddo's involved are good with he and I being together... BUT yeah.. this is now the rest of his family.. so I'm happy and hoping things go well, my bf doesn't flake LOL I felt already I was pretty much good to go because he had introduced me to his Kiddo's and I know they are the most important to him... Good Luck with your meet and greet
Linlin Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 Good luck Merin! I am sure everything will go fine. I have decided that I would be nice to any GF that my ex brings around as long as they are not rude to me or my children. IMO they are not the reason we are not together so they shouldn't be punished for it. As long as they treat me with respect, I will treat them the same way. He has a GF now but won't admit it. The kids have told me. He doesn't want me to know for whatever reason. I continue to remain a loser!! Remember to just be yourself and I am sure everyone will love you!!
Author Merin Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Good luck Merin! I am sure everything will go fine. I have decided that I would be nice to any GF that my ex brings around as long as they are not rude to me or my children. IMO they are not the reason we are not together so they shouldn't be punished for it. As long as they treat me with respect, I will treat them the same way. He has a GF now but won't admit it. The kids have told me. He doesn't want me to know for whatever reason. I continue to remain a loser!! Remember to just be yourself and I am sure everyone will love you!! LOL Thanks Honey See I'm that way with my EXH.. as long as his Girl treats my Little People cool, and respects me as my Kiddo's Mom I'm good to go
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