Gf posted intimate pic on social media and found out i looked into her fb

[RkJose]

Hey guys i need help with a situation. Is posting slutty/and procative pics in bikini in an intimate environment alright for a girl with bf for 1 year? She claime she only needs me and actually hadnt posted inappropriate pics for a while. This one is just getting me though, does the fact that she needs to share private images of her online only mean that she is an attention and a bitch? She says she hadnt thought about it and just liked the pic. That did not have attention to get other guys attention. Now she also found out i d looked into her fb now and once like 2 weeks ago is is blaming it on me calling me insecure and so on. We re kinda not in a good note she wants to get over it and be alright but this pics was just too much this time how is it acceptable for a girl to post a pic like "look im sexy come and get me" . Please give some opinions? Do i justify being mad. And i really dont care i snopped but she s trying to put that agains me so that we re even. To sum up we re a ldr..

[WhatYouWantToHear]

Please post the pics or provide a link so we can accurately access the situation.

 

(Someone quote me quickly so when the mods edit this it sticks).

 

Is posting slutty/and procative pics in bikini in an intimate environment alright for a girl with bf for 1 year?

 

Wow, way to ask a loaded question. If you've turned to this forum to make you feel right in your immaturity, good luck. My advice is to break this thing off, grow up a little and then try and get a local girlfriend.

Edited June 28, 2016 by WhatYouWantToHear

[hestheone66]

Focus on whether being with her makes you happy.

People do things for many reasons. I have a lovely boyfriend who gives me lots of love and attention. However I like the attention of men but never act in it...I like to post slutty pics on the internet (not on my fb tho). It has given me more confidence sexually and made me lose inhibitions, which has made our sex life extraordinary. My bf knows ..he treats it as a game to find pics turn up on sites like Tumblr..I think he gets a boost thinking that there may be other guys lusting after me but he gets to have it whenever he likes..

[Lorenza]

Girls do a lot of things to get reassured of their attractiveness, without meaning to cheat at all. Might mean nothing more than her wanting to get the attention. But...why?

 

Are you an attentive boyfriend? Do you make her feel wanted? Is sex life good? Answer yourself these questions and think if there is a reason for her to seek attention and reassurance elsewhere.

[54JA]

What is an "intimate environment?"

[RkJose]

Intimate as in making a sexy pose laying in a hotel rooms couch. Our sex life is the best possible when we re together, and i do think i give her enough attention, affection and affirmation of love and attraction. Less after this event with the pic as i just feel hurt, disrespected and have this thing inside me that tells me im dating s bitch. She also has some other bitchy attitudes as one time she complimented another dudes perfume in front of me and thought it was normal. Of course i created trouble.. And she used to post lots of kinky pics when she was a couple years younger and also does have a shady past, from which she claims she had a soul transformation and changed. She says all she wants is me and that she loves me so much and Would never do anything behind my back because she even doesnt care about other guys so i just dont get why she d just be wanting that kind lf attention or of if she was, why would she not admit it and try to play innocent? The pic was really not innocent. Is it possible a woman change so much or am i just being silly? Also when we re together she has some bipolar traces and change from a nice caring girl to a bitch all of a sudden... This gives me uncertanty if she fakes the person she is and if i can really trust her

[Phoenician]

she might be doing it to label you taken , so that any female who sneaks on Social media will know you are taken ...

[EgoJoe]

You're both too young for a LDR. I recommend breaking up civilly. If she comes near you; be friendly get action etc. Keep it classy but pursue other women.

[RkJose]

Thanks for the advices i would provice the link but she has taken the picture down, as well as her entire profile. I am 23. Amd she 26. Although i feel i am too young to commit to an uncertain relationship, i do not suceed to break up with her as our connection is very strong and we have made some incredible memories already together.

[Giggles666]

I'm not sure what to say, if she makes you feel insecure you both need to move on. If you think she's a bitch, then move on. Also I don't think complimenting a guy on his perfume is a bad thing.

 

Your relationship sounds like some sort of insecure mess heading for a brick wall to me but to each their own I suppose.

[Cherryz]

You guys sound very young.

 

Either-way certain type of pics are not nice to show even if you single.

It send the wrong message about you to others that see it.

 

If you are her bf, why is it snooping if you look at her fb?

Isnt it normal that you will look at someone you with fb?!!

 

I dont know her pics. But if you feel its disrespectful to you, just have a talk with her about it.

But reading your post it may be that this is not your type of girl.

Maybe you should look for a girl that carry herself differently.

 

Ps: you seem also a little to jealous. Giving a other guy compliment on his perfume is not bad. If its done in a normal way. Like giggling and act seductive also is wrong.

[RkJose]

Noo, i wish thst was it but it was actually snooping. I d logged onto her fb and she saw it when she suddently decided to deactivate her account. I wish i was just sure about the relationship going down a brick wall. How can i be sure? We apparently are getting over this snooping/ sexy pic thing

[RkJose]

And no way complimenting a random dude in the streets on his perfume while being with me? Then she just said some excuse that it was the same as mine.