snoop_dawg22 Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 I'm feeling really down today. My ex will be getting married this Friday to someone he's been with for 3 mos. We were together for 3yrs. It just really sucks! I now have a new bf and we're cool but when you've invested so much into someone and see it go down the drain it just hurts. There's been NC for about 3 weeks now. Didn't even speak on each other's b-day. Some may wonder why do you care? It's easy to say but I do still have some feelings for him. I'm just full of emotions. I guess this is just a sad vent!
beejsea2 Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 I now how you feel. My ex of 4 1/2 years proposed to a woman he knew less than three months. Why do we care?? We invested an amount of time on a relationship with them and in some ways we thought/think that we were the "one". In my case I'm 100 times better off without my ex, I too have a really great guy in my life now but it's just the finality of all of it. Just keep up with the NC and keep pamper yourself a manicure/pedicure. Do something for you!! Hopefully this will help you get over the rut you're in.
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted June 27, 2005 Author Posted June 27, 2005 Thank you for the reply. I just feel sad right now. I've somewhat pushed my new guy away and he knows what's going on and he's been real great with dealing with me. But you're right. I am better off without my ex too. I just have to tell myself that this too shall pass!
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