MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru sigh.. damn I am the exception.. can count on 1 hand the number of guys i've actually had sex with.. I feel like i'm missing something. You're not missing out ... next Woggle will say he doesn't want to be in a relationship with a woman who has slept with more than 5 men. I know LOTS of guys who feel this way.
Opium Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer Can we just all agree that... SOME women are bitter, others are not. SOME men are bitter, others are not. SOME men have respect for women, others do not. SOME women like to emasulate their men, others do not. SOME single moms want a new baby daddy, others (like Merin and Kat) do NOT. SOME single daddys are players just looking for p*ssy, others want more. We're all different and have different experiences. But WOGGLE, it's just plain stupid to categorize women the way you do - there's ALWAYS an exception to the rule, and especially to YOUR rules. AGREE!!
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle No not all but a man who gives up his dignity for a woman is emasculated. This woman can leavwe my life tomorrow and it wouldn't mean a thing to me. She is disposable and she knows it. I guess this attractes her even more. She doesn;t have the right balance that I look for in a woman. hmmm.. so a woman is disposable.. was your mama disposable too?
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer Can we just all agree that... SOME women are bitter, others are not. SOME men are bitter, others are not. SOME men have respect for women, others do not. SOME women like to emasulate their men, others do not. SOME single moms want a new baby daddy, others (like Merin and Kat) do NOT. SOME single daddys are players just looking for p*ssy, others want more. We're all different and have different experiences. But WOGGLE, it's just plain stupid to categorize women the way you do - there's ALWAYS an exception to the rule, and especially to YOUR rules. I always say there are exceptions and that is why I say that if what I say does not apply to a woman she should not take offense because I am not talking about her.
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer NO, MOST women do not. They want a strong man, not an a**h***. Gay men, on the other hand, quite literally love a man's a**h***...so if that's the sort of lovin' you're going for... good one star.. lololol
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru hmmm.. so a woman is disposable.. was your mama disposable too? Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself.
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself. ahhhhhh woggle.. now I understand where your anger and bitterness comes from.. sorry about the fact that your mother wasn't a part of your life.. thank goodness your dad was there for you.. its suggested that most relationships issues people have stem from there relationship with there parents.
alphamale Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer NO, MOST women do not. I must disagree STARGAXER because of my experiences and observations with women over the last 20 years. And don't tell me I imagined it all BTW, a strong man = an a**h***
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru ahhhhhh woggle.. now I understand where your anger and bitterness comes from.. sorry about the fact that your mother wasn't a part of your life.. thank goodness your dad was there for you.. its suggested that most relationships issues people have stem from there relationship with there parents. It's not just my mother. I have yet to have a single woman in my life that hasn't betrayed me in some way or the other. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself.
Opium Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Yes my mother is. I respect my mother for giving borth to me but that is where it stops. My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself. Well G Golly Jeally beans, now I get it! I was worried for a minute. Don't let other woman pay for what you're mother did. I give you my blessings because it is very hard to grow up without either parent. But things do make more sense now since you revealed this little secret.
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Just because his mother wasn't around, that doesn't excuse woggle's attitude towards women. I sincerely hope that one day, types like this find themselves in a position where their very lives depend on a woman. And whoever she turns out to be, she is as bitter and disrespectful to men as they are to women.
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle It's not just my mother. I have yet to have a single woman in my life that hasn't betrayed me in some way or the other. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself. woggle people get betrayed all the time.. again.. hearing this truely allows me to understand why your feeling the way you are.. but not all people are the same.. i've been betrayed, beaten, and more.. many times by many people in my life not only my ex husband(s) yes I had 2.. I was sexual abused by an uncle.. who then had the nerve to try and touch my daughter.. when I turned him in.. my entire family betrayed me even those he had also abused turned against me.. but I didn't turn against humanity.. there are good people out there.. you just have to find them.
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 BTW, a strong man = an a**h***You must secrete bologna juice when you walk.......
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Opium Well G Golly Jeally beans, now I get it! I was worried for a minute. Don't let other woman pay for what you're mother did. I give you my blessings because it is very hard to grow up without either parent. But things do make more sense now since you revealed this little secret. Not just my mother. My former live in girlfriend that tried to press domestic abuse charges against me even though all the abuse was ta her hands. I never once hit her My ex wife who cheated on me and then tried to take me to the cleaners in court even though she failed miserably. I have had enough of tryong to eb a good man and treat women well. All I ever got for it was grief so now I am a jerk and they seem top respect me much more.
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Just because his mother wasn't around, that doesn't excuse woggle's attitude towards women. no it doesn't justify his behavior but until such time as he works out his feelings of anger against her.. he will continue to feel this way.. Sorry I work in social services.. i've seen it all.
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru no it doesn't justify his behavior but until such time as he works out his feelings of anger against her.. he will continue to feel this way.. Sorry I work in social services.. i've seen it all. Then you already know he needs to just get over the past....what's done is done.....he's not only harming himself you know......
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose Then you already know he needs to just get over the past....what's done is done.....he's not only harming himself you know...... I don't lie to women. I tell them what there purpose in my life is and they choose to stick around and try to change me. Not my fault if they have false hopes.
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose Then you already know he needs to just get over the past....what's done is done.....he's not only harming himself you know...... absolutely.. for years I wallowed in my past.. heck.. all it got me was one abusive husband after another.. and 260lbs cause i was hiding behind food.. I was angry.. hurt... and it effected ever area of my life.. but.. I worked through it.. and damn if Ill let my past control my future.. It just takes time for people to work through there issues.. but until they do.. they are really only hurting themselves.
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer You need to get beyond this. My dad left my mom when she was still pregnant, and later told me that I was his biggest mistake. Every single man I have ever dated seriously has TRASHED my heart and betrayed me. For years, I related my father's worth of me to my own - and I think I subconsciously sought out men who would see me and treat me the same way my father did, because if my father didn't love me, who would?? It took me a LONG time, but now I know that there are good apples, and there are bad apples, and I still love and respect men. I understand the differences between the ways in which men and women behave and communicate, and I REFUSE to label men in general to be the way my father or any of my exes have been. That said, I do know what men are capable of (both the good and the bad)...so my focus is to find one of the loyal, sincere, GOOD men out there. There really are plenty, just as there are plenty of good women out there. But with your attitude, you'll never find one. Have you considered therapy? That is why I say there are exceptions but honestly my attitude towards women has more to do with my other experiences than with my mother. I am not big on therapy.
alphamale Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle I have had enough of tryong to eb a good man and treat women well. All I ever got for it was grief so now I am a jerk and they seem top respect me much more. thats about how it works WOGGLE...its eat or be eaten.
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle I don't lie to women. I tell them what there purpose in my life is and they choose to stick around and try to change me. Not my fault if they have false hopes. You don't think that when you tell these woman they're disposable, or just a sex toy, this doesn't harm them? You don't think that your overall treatment of women isn't damaging? These women that you and alpha seem to think are attracted to a**h***s aren't healthy to begin with. They are co-dependants, you are the enablers......it's damaging all the way around......
alphamale Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose You must secrete bologna juice when you walk....... well at least I dont' pander to women Originally posted by Star Gazer WTF?! :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose You don't think that when you tell these woman they're disposable, or just a sex toy, this doesn't harm them? You don't think that your overall treatment of women isn't damaging? These women that you and alpha seem to think are attracted to a**h***s aren't healthy to begin with. They are co-dependants, you are the enablers......it's damaging all the way around...... I stand corrected moose you are right.
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 The funny thing is that ever since I developed this new outlook things have been going great in my life. I landed a great job and I am making good money I played the stocks well and made a fortune I have the house almost paid off I am not even 30 yet and in about 2 years I will have no more mortgage on my house. I am eating healthier and taking better care of myself Life could not be better.
Merin Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Not just my mother. My former live in girlfriend that tried to press domestic abuse charges against me even though all the abuse was ta her hands. I never once hit her My ex wife who cheated on me and then tried to take me to the cleaners in court even though she failed miserably. I have had enough of tryong to eb a good man and treat women well. All I ever got for it was grief so now I am a jerk and they seem top respect me much more. Ever considered that it isn't the rest of the world with issues Woggle? Aside from your Mom leaving (That was all her and a bad decision not at all your fault) However seems to me from that you've learned to mistreat Women and make all Females pay for the sin's of your Mom... My Mom's Mother abandon her when she was 4 years old... left in the middle of the night without a word. Her Grandmother raised her along with taking care of my Mom's Father who was an alcoholic and abusive... he blamed my Mom for her Mother leaving and why his life was so miserable, never seeing that HE needed to take some responsibility for things in his life that happend, and never getting that my Mom was a little girl that needed to be taken care of and nurtured... Thankfully she didn't come up in the world with a jacked attitude towards Men and Motherhood uh? You can continue to be bitter, and you can continue to have all the issues you have Woggle, and I will gaurantee that you will ALSO continue to have unsuccessful relationships.
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